Milestone
I’m ready to take that next milestone but some things are out of my control. I’m talking marriage but I’m not big on ultimatums & the crazy thing is my life is working fine. However I want the piece of paper I guess.
just venting or seeing it
@truthfulbliss222 If marriage is an ultimatum or a paper to check off your list, perhaps looking deeper might be of benefit.
Have to agree with Hopefulpond marriage should not be a line on a to do list......... it is bigger then that.
I treated it that way also and now know it was a mistake ..... i was comfortable ... it felt safe and the next step. It should be more IMO and everyone i have met who did it as the next logical step or a checklist have not been happy about it.
perhaps it is more but you are just sharing that as it is more comfortable then sharing any feelings you really have ... but dig deep and be truthful to yourself before you check something off a list.
I appreciate your insight on this. I would like to be married someday it’s something I’ve dreamed of. I think it will come in due time but in mind my how much longer until it actually comes. I’ve been with my partner for almost 13 years, we have a child, just purchased a home.
It’s not something to just check off a list it’s just something I want and am passionate about. Hopefully that makes sense. I’m just waiting on my car partner to pop the question….🤣😂
