Lying
I’ve been lying to two people and now they know and both hate me. They want no contact with me and it hurts knowing they don’t want to even talk it out. I don’t know what to do and how to move on from this. I keep trying to fix things and I make it worse.
@naylile are you talking about dating relationships?? I'm not really sure what to say, so I'll just hug you ❤❤
I lied to my best friend for two years about something
@naylile oh ok. We all tell little white lies, and sometimes I guess they can escalate into much bigger lies. It doesn't mean your a bad person it means your human. Hopefully when your friends calm down, you can talk with them calmly about it. Otherwise sweetie even though it's hard, it's time to move on ❤
I know we have no chance of being friends again. All I want is to be able to heal. I feel so guilty for lying. Thank you for responding. ❤️🩹
@naylile it's ok, friends come and go, just cherish the good memories you had together, while they were passing through your life ❤ and remember you are not a bad person for lying, you are only human ❤ gives you a giant supportive hug ❤
Moments like this are hard lessons indeed as long as you can take something from this and grow to be a better friend to the next person and ultimately better for yourself then it is just a growing pain... These things happen. Anyone who claims that they've never experienced something similar is just not being truthful or cannot remember, this is common in adolescence typically our parents got us in many lies and depending on how present and how much effort they put in to correcting it ultimately makes the end result what it is. If you didn't learn the lesson at a young age you will learn the lesson eventually in some way shape or form. Don't be too hard on yourself all you can do is apologize genuinely and sincerely to these people if they decide to forgive you that is ultimately up to them and you guys can move forward if they don't then that is their prerogative. But there will be better days with more opportunities to grow and practice better communication with others. It's ok friend 💜
@naylile
You come across as a genuine person. While It's difficult to gauge the the effect of lies on the other person, you would have made an informed decision in the past about this. Its important to recognize that, and allow yourself some space to heal.
