I miss my happiness
I loved someone, at that time i was extrovert, full of energy and had a adventurous personality. I proposed them, they refused to marry me, its about one and a half year ago.
Now, im dead inside i don't even remember when was the last time i laugh ..... I still miss that time when i was happy when i was with them
I want them , i need them , i love them .... There is no hope of their return ... I dont know where im going with all this.
Sorry for such a long post .....
I'm sure your happiness will come back in some form. Don't give up. You will heal.
Hey ok, your post isn't long so don't even begin to worry about it!
Now for your situation. I am so so so sorry that happened to you, that must have been truly hard. I might not know exactly how that might feel but I do know that you WILL heal. You WILL get your old self back. I just know it. Don't give up just yet, you have a large support community here and we are all here for you. Always!
@RHassan you are capable of anything you can find happiness again within yourself trust and believe and have faith that you will overcome anything you will find love again it takes time but you will get there on your own once more never give up hope it's always there
You will get back the better version of you....You will be happy again...you have survived the worst part now you will also overcome the difficulties as well. Every day share a positive affirmation or keep yourself very busy...the right person will love you back with all your flaws too...upgrade yourself and when you feel the sense of achievement you will be happy again...overcome the loss with achievement..accept that the person has left and it will hurt but that doesn't mean the world has stopped...every night brings a new day...even with that experience you will meet better people...hope for the best...be patient..growth takes time..
@RHassan
Losing someone important to us is very painful. Sometimes it is necessary to let it all out and lots of time needs to pass to heal. Stay strong!
@RHassan
Everyone has their own timeline of healing, all we can do is let time takes its course and move along one step at a time. The first few steps are always the hardest to make, but it'll eventually get easier and by time you'll be running again.
@RHassan I think I went through something similar with my ex. I was single and happy with who I was for a long time before that relationship. But during the relationship, things that made me happy and the world I saw slowly changed to something that included her. I was a masters student during that relationship. I couldn't sleep all night after the breakup and then headed straight to class in the morning when I had a weird thought "why am I doing this?" and just the fact that I asked that question and didn't know the answer to it scared me to my very core to a point where I didn't who who I was apart from the relationship. I called a friend at 7:30 AM, she picked up and before I could say or explain anything I just burst out crying.
Fast-forward a couple years, I'm now dating the love of my life and she makes me happier than I ever was with my ex. And I'm beginning to see that that existential crisis I had on my way to class was necessary. And I'm also glad that I took a couple years before getting involved with someone else again.
I wish you the best and hope you can find the strength in you to go through it and find that self-love again. I'm here for you. Pls lmk if you need a friendly ear.
P.S. sorry for the long post ;)
Hope you are doing well....
@RHassan I know how you feel. I'm estranged from four of my children. Had a granddaughter who was just born and I don't get to know her. Their father is a narcissist. And they soon followed his path.
