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Friendship issues

navyAcai8433 May 25th, 2023

I recently made a friend, it's been about a few months or so. She is dating a guy who is clearly not good for her and she is not mature in love. She's still very naive and doesn't get it. I have been straightforward with her and I tried to explain what is going on, but she is so blinded by this guy that she's started probably disliking me deep down ever since we had that discussion. She is literally so passive aggressive with me and she also messages me on the daily. Like hey, if you don't like me then don't message me either but neither of the two works. She will soon confess to the guy that she likes him so much and ask for commitment, as bad as it sounds I just feel it that she will be rejected. I don't know if even then she will realise that I was looking to just help her.

Thoughts?

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toughTiger6481 May 26th, 2023

@navyAcai8433

In these situations there is no win..... say something and you get the treatment you are getting .....

say nothing and when it implodes they ask why did you not warn me..... In relationships many people are blind to those who point out issues.

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navyAcai8433 OP May 26th, 2023

@toughTiger6481 very very true. I really appreciate you telling me that! I also cannot deal with passive aggression anymore so I will slowly distance. Not a big deal, not like this hasn't happened before

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