Dont feel like ppl care abt me much
Hey so, in 7cups, even with my friends and everyone.. I just dont feel like they care abt me at all much deep inside. Im absolutely sure thats false and they absolutely care 100% but... Even so, I just feel like deep inside they dont care much and care 10% or a bit more/less. I mean with more new online ppl ofc they arent gonna care as much. Me and them are new to each other so ya gotta built trust and care, ig thats what I thought of to support that.. But that thought def is from my bad online friendships before... Dang they still hurt/effect me somehow.. Anyways yeah its def from my tr**ma, sucks man. Tr**ma rly doin sht huh. Hope I could get support...
@Chrissy911666
Hello Chrissy!
Thank you for reaching out! It takes a lot of courage to do that, especially when you understand where you are coming from.
It sounds like a really tough situation you are in. If I understand correctly, you can rationalize that you are not mistreated by your new friends, yet it just doesn't feel right.
Sometimes our gut feeling is on point, sometimes we are clouded by our previous experiences. And it is hard to find a balance between those two. Especially since you had awful experiences before.
I am sorry you had to go through this, and I am crossing my fingers that you will find people here you vibe with :)
That said, other than posting into group chats, you can also browse listeners or connect to a random one under the chat tab. Feel free to message me as well. I am usually more offline than online, however I will reply as soon as possible, and we can figure out when a chat session would work out for the both of us <3.
Give yourself time to heal and make new steps when you feel ready to :)
Don't give up, I hope you can feel more comfortable and find support here.
@Chrissy911666
Chrissy :
i relate to the need for support ! 😊
Chrissy : i am inviting you to come join me in the Sharing Circle chat room on 7Ccups.com
and the members in the Sharing Circle will support you and listen to you !
