Don’t be hard on yourself. Ever.
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
*Poke*
I just need someone to talk to, and I knew you’d be a good person to go to!
Hugs for being a great friend! ♥️
@SukoLovesHito133
Aww I'm glad you decided to poke, Suko and ofcourse, here for youu! ❤
Please feel free to share/ talk about anything you need to.
*hugs back* 🤗
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Thanks, Sun! The amount of likes this post got in four hours is interesting.
Anyways! I really appreciate you being here for me, especially right now, as life has drastically changed for me
@SukoLovesHito133
Hehe we've got lots of supportive people here. Everyone's cheering for Suko. Yay!❤
Ofcourse, lovely. Would you like to share more about the changes, how've you been taking them, anything else on your mind? You've got the space to, and all the time you need.❤
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
The Major change in my life right now, Is not only having to change to another school for the 4th time this year, but I’m moving, yet again.
Glad there are so many supportive people here on 7cups! It really makes my day, knowing I’m not alone
@SukoLovesHito133
Oh noes, changing schools and moving multiple times doesn't sound fun at all. I see how overwhelming it can get trying to keep up with everything.
How you been holding up, Suko? Please do let us know if we can support in any way.
Aw yes, definitely not alone around here. ❤
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
What makes it even worse, is most of my alters (Many the littles) Have been freaking out, and I’ve been trying to help calm them down, but each one is them is constantly having trouble. I also have Insomnia, so sleeping has been a struggle.
I Honestly don’t know how to get support at the moment. However, knowing people have my back, does make it a bit better.
@SukoLovesHito133
Aw yes it didn't. Tags are quite something!
Thankyouu for tagging me again today, Suko! ❤
I understand how difficult it must be for the littles to cope with the massive changes they've been presented with truck load of stress, valid for them to express their discomfort through causing troubles. It must've been so hard for you to help them calm, and be gentle with y'all as you navigate through this tough situation, without any support around. :(
I'm really glad you know you've got people to fall back on at cups at least, it may not be enough to compensate for a lack off-here/ in-person support but we truly care for your wellbeing and hope everything will be better soon!
It's been a while already, how have things been going for y'all? How are you handling everything? ❤
Sending lots of love and hugs!
@SukoLovesHito133
Thankyouu suko, subscribed to the thread, so hopefully one of the tags/ notifications will work better. :') My responses maybe delayed at times though, if I'm away or something. Please don't worry though! You can always share or talk about anything on your mind! ❤
Ooh expecting twins, that sure is news and I get feeling all overwhelmed about it, despite other people being excited.
What is helpful while comforting the littles usually? We can perhaps be gentle with them, and allow them time to cope with everything going around.
Been a week or so. How have things been going for you? Also moving and school wise?
@SukoLovesHito133
Ooh yall have? how's it going so far? Unpacking, settling, and a whole lot of things to figure. :o Sending lots of strength y'alls way!
Aww I'm glad it's a good news!
It's tough having to manage so much and running out of options. I get how defeating it feels.
You're doing your best Suko, it sure matters. Truly hoping things get better overall! ❤
Ah the reply button went missing Haha! #forums :')
Absolutely no need to thank me, Suko, it's the least I could do and I'm grateful to be of some support. ✨❤
Sending hugs and good wishes. How's April even for y'all so far?
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
April has been something else, to be honest.. 😅 One of the littles has talked about wanting to go to space, as a way to relieve the way they feel, because they think running from the problem, will make it better
Other than that, I think we’ve gotten things sorta figured out by now
@SukoLovesHito133
I got this tag thankfuly, but couldnt reply sooner, thanks for the follow up.❤
Aww it sounds like they feel too overwhelmed and need some distance with everything happening, perhaps not ready to acknowledge or tackle the situation, absolutely valid to need some time away though.
What might help comfort them more? Maybe some kind of assurance to take their time or similar?
I'm glad beside that, things have been manageable.❤
Any plans for the weekend?
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
I do actually have a plan for this weekend- The father and I have actually decided that we wanna be a couple, just to try it out.
Other than that, the littles have actually been sorta calm, so yeah, doing well!
@SukoLovesHito133
Aw that sounds like a good plan, I hope the trying is worth it and things go well for y'all. Super okay to take y'alls time and be at your pace.
Yay for littles being calmer, and going well so far. <3
@SukoLovesHito133 ah it's annoying the reply button poofed, I hope this reply lands at an appropriate place lol! #_#
Oh noes, I'm sorry it is just one of those tough days, when things feel overwhelming. Here with you Suko and sending the comfiest cheer, I hope no matter how tough things get, you get through the day and can find some space to comfort yourself later in the day. 💛
@SukoLovesHito133❤️
@SukoLovesHito133
Sukoooo, it's been a loong time. You're in my thoughts, dear friend. I hope you're doing okie. Hope to hear from you soon. ❤
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
I actually took a very long break from 7 cups.. I'm back though!
@SukoLovesHito133 Good to see you back!
