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Betrayal

User Profile: sweetpotato300
sweetpotato300 December 6th, 2023

Please if you are going to judge and say mean comments don't comment.

Over the last few months, I've made a friend online. We would often ***, but also talk about personal subject. I've discovered today he has a partner and has been with that partner before we started talking. I feel dirty, betrayed and hurt. We've bonded on communication and honesty, and now I don't know who to trust. I really felt like they understood who I was and cared for me.

Any tips or reassuring words? Am I alone in this situation? What should I do?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 6th, 2023

@sweetpotato300

It is the nature of the online type or LDR relationship.... some people have IRL partners or even spouses ... it is hard to trust when we want to believe we connected and can trust a person. 

It is not your fault as he is the person who did not share the truth with you. I know you may feel bad about what happened but give your self a break you made a choice without all the facts it happens and all we can do is forgive ourselves for making a mistake.