Beating myself again
worryBear
December 21st, 2023
I had a colleague and we are at the same position. I can't deny that he performs well in his jobs. And whenever my other friends talk about him telling how great he is, I feel dejected since I'm not like who he is. I know I shouldn't compare, but that's how I feel
crimsonDrum7450
December 21st, 2023
@worryBearone
One thing that might help is to remind yourself that you don’t have to be like him, you have to be the best you. And if you’re both at the same position then you’re just as deserving of that place, so someone sees value in your work and contributions.