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Beating myself again

worryBear December 21st, 2023
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I had a colleague and we are at the same position. I can't deny that he performs well in his jobs. And whenever my other friends talk about him telling how great he is, I feel dejected since I'm not like who he is. I know I shouldn't compare, but that's how I feel

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crimsonDrum7450 December 21st, 2023
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@worryBearone

One thing that might help is to remind yourself that you don’t have to be like him, you have to be the best you.  And if you’re both at the same position then you’re just as deserving of that place, so someone sees value in your work and contributions.