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Relationship Anxiety rising and need a listener/ someone to talk to

jbl383 February 25th, 2022

Started dating someone really nice after being dumped a few times. Now I’m getting silence bc he’s super busy with work. I know this yet I’m freaking out to the point I’m crying for now reason. Will appreciate any time given to me plz.

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kitty78Kitty February 25th, 2022

Your story reminds me a little of my situation.

Squirrel012108 February 25th, 2022

Are you ok?

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jbl383 OP February 26th, 2022

Tbh, idk. I still haven’t gotten a message but I don’t want to message again and be ignored or seem like I’m pestering.

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Lifeonmars787 February 26th, 2022

Hi dear! It would be easier to give you a word of comfort if we knew more about it, but it seems like you are worried about something. Do you have any idea what's troubling you? Is it somehow related to your previous relationships? What could make you feel better at the moment? If you haven't already, I recommend connecting with a listener here or choosing one in the "Browse Listeners" section. By talking about it and finding your calm, it will be easier to deal with the problem, whatever it may be.


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jbl383 OP February 26th, 2022

I wasn’t sure how much I could put on here abs I didn’t want to seem triggering either. I was really tired as well so I’m still trying to center before I try talking to someone. It does stem from my past but, again, I don’t want to seem triggering. When I’m more stable, I think I can find a listener.

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Em100 February 26th, 2022

@jbl383 Hi, I have very similar anxiety regarding my relationship. Mostly I just overanalyze very little things and cause myself so much anxiety. I worry about self sabotaging. It is totally normal to care about someone so much, but I just try to remember that everyone is human and not perfect all the time. Let me know if you want to talk :)

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jbl383 OP February 26th, 2022

That is pretty much how things have been for me lately and it’s all bc I really like this guy. Thanks for the offer to talk. I’ve been just trying to be a little more calm before talking to someone. I may take you up on that.

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