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Long-term Friend

JustAPen January 8th, 2017

I'm a lonely guy. I'm very introverted and I have a hard time making friends. I want someone who won't just listen but invest time and help me build a friendship with them. Something real. A long-term, maybe even lifelong friend.

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imaginativeMelon7014 January 8th, 2017

@JustAPen

I believe it would make you harm to build such a strong friendship with someone only to realize you aren't allowed to have contact outside 7 Cups. It also believe you need to have better boundaries when contacting anyone especially if you know yourself to be more of a loner and so more vulnerable when making meaningful contact. Don't put yourself in the position of certain sufferring. Take into account that if 7 Cups disappears you won't have any of your friends from here and so it's better to keep a certain distance no matter what.