Going through confusing break-up
I've handled break-ups well before but this one is different. I broke up with her, because she was abusive. Yet I regret it and she won't even talk to me since I left her. I need a good listener who can just help me move on. I don't want to be clingy to my ex but I do want her back but also things were not working out but I feel like we could have worked things out. Just need someone to help me figure out if I did the right thing, and if I did, help me get through being alone through the process. Sorry and Thank you.
@Brandon513 Hey dude. I just left my abusive boyfriend and I understand what you're going through. Abusive relationships are just so toxic and I know it's hard to tell whether leaving was the right decision or not. Trust me, it is. You will find someone who will make you so happy and care about you with all of their heart. You deserve the best, and this chica isn't it. Even if she was the best girlfriend when she wasn't abusive, she doesn't deserve you. It's going to suck, but you have to do exactly what she's doing and move on.
@Brandon513 I know that you think that things could have worked out differently, but you need to realize that you can't fix everyone. You can't fix every situation. In my experience, every time i came back thinking "it's different this time, we can fix this", I just ended up getting hurt again and again. I don't want you to make the same mistake.
