Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Just a thought

User Profile: Secretsrevealed
Secretsrevealed August 6th, 2023

Whenever you are going through tough times please don't fall for anyone. At that times we are going through a tough life and anyone who is just being nice little bit we fall for that person. As our mind is looking for an escape at that situation we just feel like that person is caring and loving us but infact its not. So please try to make yourself stable before you fell for someone

5
User Profile: Jennifer773469
Jennifer773469 August 7th, 2023

@Secretsrevealed

Thats probably always a good idea. It's difficult though, especially under the circumstances you mention here, to ever be fully in control of who you fall for. It doesn't take much at all to come off as a hero to someone going through emotional distress.

3 replies
User Profile: Secretsrevealed
Secretsrevealed OP August 7th, 2023

yes I agree, you know I see people suffering later as they fall for the wrong person. We should always have less expectations and priority should be given to ourselves. people come and go, its us who have to fight it out

2 replies
User Profile: Jennifer773469
Jennifer773469 August 7th, 2023

@Secretsrevealed

I wish it was as easy as you make it sound.

1 reply
User Profile: Secretsrevealed
Secretsrevealed OP August 7th, 2023

its obviously not, i completely understand that. But see when people will read this atleast they will try a bit. if we can help 1 in 10000 thats still a success 🙂

load more
load more
load more
User Profile: Cookiedonuts2000
Cookiedonuts2000 August 8th, 2023

@Secretsrevealed

Thank you for sharing this thoughtful perspective! You're absolutely right that during challenging times, it's common for our emotions to seek comfort and connection. It's important to approach new relationships, especially romantic ones, with a clear and stable mindset. Taking the time to focus on your own well-being and emotional stability before diving into a new relationship is a wise approach. When we're in a more balanced state, we can make decisions based on genuine compatibility and shared values. It's all about finding the right balance between seeking companionship and ensuring that it's a healthy and mutually beneficial connection😊