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From Close to Distant: A Heartfelt Goodbye

secretFan1424 October 6th

Lately, I've been feeling a deep ache in my heart. My best friend and I used to talk all day, sharing everything, but now it feels like she’s drifting away. I’m left wondering what went wrong and if I did something to hurt her.


The silence is so heavy, and I miss our connection. Without her, I feel lost and alone. I wish I could reach out and understand what’s happening. If anyone else has felt this way, just know you’re not alone. I’m holding on to hope that one day we can bridge this gap.

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Hiya @secretFan1424, welcome to the community. I understand how difficult it feels seeing your best friend drift away, someone you talked to so regularly and then start to lose the regular touch. Incredibly saddening when that longing hits us. :( 

You mentioned your wish to reach out and understand better on what's going on, and I find it a great idea as without a clear communication there's usually only guess work or assumptions and assumptions are quicker to heat misunderstandings between people. There could be a number reasons as to why people seem to be drifting away, and I do find that reaching out and having that heart-to-heart can go a long way, specially when the person means something to us and we don't want to lose them to the emotional distance or time gap. 

How do you feel about reaching out?💛 I do hope y'all are able to work through the hiccup and find your way back to one another.🤗