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User Profile: forcefulShip4663
forcefulShip4663 April 23rd

Hi so I think my ex ended up playing me. In between the 2 times we dated he like another girl lets Charlotte. and I was talking to one of mine and my ex's nuetral friend and we ended up bringing up that I thought he liked our neutral friend. Well the she texted my ex to ask who he liked and he said Charlotte. So now I'm blaming myself for these prophetic dreams since I was 4. Those dreams sometimes were prophetic but most weren't but when I was 4 I fell head over heels in love with my ex. I know everything happens for a reason I'm just so confused and cant figure out the reason for this. Since I was 4 I've been planning my future with my ex and now its gone and I'm more lonely then ever (that's saying something). So ya, I'll take any advice right now.

Thanks for listening! I hope you all have a great day!!!!!!


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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 April 24th

@forcefulShip4663

Letting go of a plan formed as a child ... perhaps you did not consider other or all  choices or people that would be entering your life....perhaps you saw nothing but smooth sailing with out struggle as if you both had the same plan.... maybe his vision was not the same. 

I think many that do not learn to take and deal with life as it comes .......have a hard time adjusting to things that did not go as you planned. Life throws changes or obstacles to almost everyone. 

It is frustrating and and often feels like "what do i do NOW?"  Think of it as a brand new canvas to paint a new picture of what you want in your life... 

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User Profile: forcefulShip4663
forcefulShip4663 OP April 24th

@toughTiger6481

Thanks a lot. That was helpful.

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