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How to Make Friends After Bullying – Yep, It’s Possible! 🫶
by kabir22
Last post
Saturday
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Hey lovely people! 🌟
Okay, let's be real for a second—making friends after being bullied can feel like climbing a mountain in flip-flops. 🩴 It’s tough, and sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever reach the top. But guess what? You can, and you will. I’ve got your back with some tips to help you navigate this journey. Let’s dive in, shall we?
1. Start with Self-Acceptance (You’re Amazing, Period)
Easier said than done, right? But honestly, you’ve been through something tough, and you owe yourself a bit of love. Take a moment to look in the mirror and say, “I’m worth knowing. I’m worth loving.” Because you are. Spend time doing the things that make you feel you. Whether it’s reading, painting, or watching that same sitcom for the tenth time—do it unapologetically.
2. Find Your Tribe (Safe Spaces, Anyone?)
I’m talking about those places where you walk in, and nobody expects you to be anything other than yourself. Maybe it’s a local book club, a hiking group, or an online community where you can geek out about your favorite show. Shared interests make it so much easier to start conversations without all that pressure of impressing someone. Trust me, finding your tribe makes all the difference.
3. Talk About the Little Things (Big Things Come Later)
You don't have to start with a TED Talk about your life. Try simple stuff like, “Hey, do you like pineapple on pizza?” 🍍🍕(And if they say yes, well, you’ve just found someone with impeccable taste.) Building friendships can start with these small, light-hearted conversations.
4. Be Honest (But No Need to Spill the Beans Right Away)
It’s okay to let people in, but only when you feel comfortable. You don’t owe anyone your whole story, but sharing bits and pieces when you’re ready can help build real connections. It’s like slowly peeling back layers of an onion… except without the tears (hopefully).
5. Set Boundaries Like a Boss 🛑
Listen, you’ve already been through enough. It’s perfectly fine to have boundaries and to stick to them. If you’re not comfortable talking about something, say so. Real friends will respect that, and if they don’t, well, they’re probably not worth the energy. You deserve people who make you feel safe and respected.
6. Explore the Digital Universe (Making Friends Has Never Been So Wi-Fi Friendly) 📱
Online communities can be a lifesaver when meeting people face-to-face feels like scaling Everest. Whether it’s joining a fandom, gaming group, or a forum for your favorite hobby, there’s a whole world out there ready to welcome you with open arms (or, you know, enthusiastic emojis 🤗).
7. Be Kind, Be Yourself, and Be a Little Weird (Seriously, It’s the Best Combo)
The most beautiful friendships are built on authenticity. Don’t hide the parts of yourself that you think are “too much” or “too weird.” Love binge-watching cat videos at 2 a.m.? Great. Enjoy talking to your plants? Awesome. The right people will find your quirks endearing, I promise.
8. Remember That Not Everyone’s a Jerk (I Promise)
It’s easy to put up walls when you’ve been hurt, but not everyone’s out to break them down. Some people genuinely want to know the real you. Give them a chance—but keep that protective armor handy, just in case. ⚔️
9. Patience, Grasshopper 🐛
You’re not going to become best friends with someone overnight, and that’s completely okay. Relationships take time to build. Every time you put yourself out there, even if it’s just a little “hello,” you’re making progress. Celebrate those small wins—they matter more than you think.
You’ve Got This! 🌈
You’re more than the stuff you’ve been through. You’re resilient, you’re strong, and there’s a world of potential friends out there just waiting to meet you. So take a deep breath, put on that brave face (even if it’s a little wobbly today), and remember—you’re not alone in this journey. We’ve got your back. 💪
Anyone else got tips, stories, or a good pineapple pizza debate to share? 🍍🍕 Let’s hear them! Your voice matters, and who knows, you might just find a friend right here. 💛
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Tagging some so this can be used as reference whenever needed - @Hope @ASilentObserver @MelodyoftheOcean @Heartsandrosesandpaws @SparkyGizmo @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @coolvibes @Boon4U
Friendship Support Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
March 19th
March 19th
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Welcome to the Friendship Support Taglist
This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you!
Why should I join the taglist?
✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events
✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted
✔ Become a more active member of the community.
What do I need to do?
✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me.
❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me.
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Current taglist as of 9 August 2024 (updated by @tommy)
@AnimalLover2006 @Bella20 @braveFig6308 @dapperLunch1747 @daydreammemories @Gettingbettertoday @HarmonyBlossom @LucyGray1799 @Ninahdy @OakSerenity @politePeach9642 @raspberry563 @reginalistener18 @spectacularApricot7089 @tidyCurrent1882 @tommy
Systemic Psychotherapy for Friendship Support
by SoulfullyAButterfly
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January 23rd
January 23rd
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Are you interested in improving your relationships, understanding yourself better, and developing new skills? If yes, you may be eligible to participate in our study.
What is Systemic Therapy?
Systemic therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on relationships between people and the patterns of interaction within the systems that impact the well-being of the individuals within the system. Healthy systems are encouraged by seeking balance within the system, as well as working on the roles and relationships involved.
What is the Purpose of This Study?
The purpose of this study is to explore how systemic psychotherapy-informed growth paths and listener training can help people to achieve personal growth and positive change. We want to understand how participating in the growth path or listener training can affect your relationships, thoughts, behaviour, and feelings, and how your past experiences influence your current patterns, behaviour, and relationships.
What Are the Benefits of Participating?
By participating in this study, you will:
* Learn more about systemic therapy and how it can help you improve your relationships and well-being
* Gain insights into your own patterns, behaviour, and feelings, and how they are influenced by your past and present experiences
* Develop new skills and techniques
* Contribute to research by answering questionnaires
How Can You Sign Up?
If you are interested in participating in this study, please read the full advertisement and sign-up form here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/ResearchParticipationOpportunitySystemicPsychotherapyinformedGrowthPathandListenerTraining_311588/]. We will contact you to confirm your eligibility and provide you with more information. Hurry up, as we have limited time available to participate in this research opportunity!
can we be friends lol???
by raymond1203
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13 minutes ago
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2023 was a hard year for me. i had a couple losses that rocked me to my foundation. i’m finally feeling ready to socialize again…but it’s been a long time and im an awkward person.
my ex was my entire world and when that all ended i felt broken and lost. the realization that i lost everything and have to start from scratch again was a lot to deal with. having no friends has been a bummer. i constantly feel alone.
i just miss having someone to talk to and laugh with.
Fight
by SupurbVegetable
Last post
1 day ago
1 day ago
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Hey everyone,
I’ve been having some problems with one of my best friends and we’ve been fighting a lot this past week. I won’t get into the details here, but how do I tell her that I don’t want to be BEST friends anymore but still want to be friends with her? I don’t want to be a horrible person.
What to be friends?
by inventiveKitten4821
Last post
2 days ago
2 days ago
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@Whyme3112
Hey, this probably seems strange 😅
but I saw your messages in the group chat but it was an hour later so I wasn’t sure if you were still on.
It seems like you and I might have some stuff in common and I was wondering if you wanted to be friends?
No worries if you would rather not! 😄
advice
by blueSummer3495
Last post
2 days ago
2 days ago
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hey beautiful people
I'm looking for some ways in which I can improve as a person and be a better friend. What characteristics is a good friend to you?
Giving it a go again
by Gettingbettertoday
Last post
2 days ago
2 days ago
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I have signed up again with Bumble to use the friends feature.
Now that I have I remember why I deleted my old account. So based on a picture you are expected to make contact. You can't look their profile or even interests. You see who you were matched with. So looking at everyone I find myself trying to find the most pathetic human being possible. Someone so self loathing they will consider being my friend.
Looking for some friends
by blueSummer3495
Last post
3 days ago
3 days ago
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hi there! I'm going through a lot of stuff with my friends and I just dont feel like I have anyone that cares about me, so I'm here trying to look for people who I can help and who can just be there for me.
Daily Book Read
by ChopWoodAndCarryWater
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Sunday
Sunday
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I'll post my Daily Readings here.
I'll post the cover image of books I bought or currently Reading.
I'll post highlighted, underlined, encircled or margin written book excerpts.
How to Make Friends After Bullying – Yep, It’s Possible! 🫶
by kabir22
Last post
Saturday
Saturday
...See more
Hey lovely people! 🌟
Okay, let's be real for a second—making friends after being bullied can feel like climbing a mountain in flip-flops. 🩴 It’s tough, and sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever reach the top. But guess what? You can, and you will. I’ve got your back with some tips to help you navigate this journey. Let’s dive in, shall we?
1. Start with Self-Acceptance (You’re Amazing, Period)
Easier said than done, right? But honestly, you’ve been through something tough, and you owe yourself a bit of love. Take a moment to look in the mirror and say, “I’m worth knowing. I’m worth loving.” Because you are. Spend time doing the things that make you feel you. Whether it’s reading, painting, or watching that same sitcom for the tenth time—do it unapologetically.
2. Find Your Tribe (Safe Spaces, Anyone?)
I’m talking about those places where you walk in, and nobody expects you to be anything other than yourself. Maybe it’s a local book club, a hiking group, or an online community where you can geek out about your favorite show. Shared interests make it so much easier to start conversations without all that pressure of impressing someone. Trust me, finding your tribe makes all the difference.
3. Talk About the Little Things (Big Things Come Later)
You don't have to start with a TED Talk about your life. Try simple stuff like, “Hey, do you like pineapple on pizza?” 🍍🍕(And if they say yes, well, you’ve just found someone with impeccable taste.) Building friendships can start with these small, light-hearted conversations.
4. Be Honest (But No Need to Spill the Beans Right Away)
It’s okay to let people in, but only when you feel comfortable. You don’t owe anyone your whole story, but sharing bits and pieces when you’re ready can help build real connections. It’s like slowly peeling back layers of an onion… except without the tears (hopefully).
5. Set Boundaries Like a Boss 🛑
Listen, you’ve already been through enough. It’s perfectly fine to have boundaries and to stick to them. If you’re not comfortable talking about something, say so. Real friends will respect that, and if they don’t, well, they’re probably not worth the energy. You deserve people who make you feel safe and respected.
6. Explore the Digital Universe (Making Friends Has Never Been So Wi-Fi Friendly) 📱
Online communities can be a lifesaver when meeting people face-to-face feels like scaling Everest. Whether it’s joining a fandom, gaming group, or a forum for your favorite hobby, there’s a whole world out there ready to welcome you with open arms (or, you know, enthusiastic emojis 🤗).
7. Be Kind, Be Yourself, and Be a Little Weird (Seriously, It’s the Best Combo)
The most beautiful friendships are built on authenticity. Don’t hide the parts of yourself that you think are “too much” or “too weird.” Love binge-watching cat videos at 2 a.m.? Great. Enjoy talking to your plants? Awesome. The right people will find your quirks endearing, I promise.
8. Remember That Not Everyone’s a Jerk (I Promise)
It’s easy to put up walls when you’ve been hurt, but not everyone’s out to break them down. Some people genuinely want to know the real you. Give them a chance—but keep that protective armor handy, just in case. ⚔️
9. Patience, Grasshopper 🐛
You’re not going to become best friends with someone overnight, and that’s completely okay. Relationships take time to build. Every time you put yourself out there, even if it’s just a little “hello,” you’re making progress. Celebrate those small wins—they matter more than you think.
You’ve Got This! 🌈
You’re more than the stuff you’ve been through. You’re resilient, you’re strong, and there’s a world of potential friends out there just waiting to meet you. So take a deep breath, put on that brave face (even if it’s a little wobbly today), and remember—you’re not alone in this journey. We’ve got your back. 💪
Anyone else got tips, stories, or a good pineapple pizza debate to share? 🍍🍕 Let’s hear them! Your voice matters, and who knows, you might just find a friend right here. 💛
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Tagging some so this can be used as reference whenever needed - @Hope @ASilentObserver @MelodyoftheOcean @Heartsandrosesandpaws @SparkyGizmo @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @coolvibes @Boon4U
Hey
by peacefulWings2392
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Friday
Friday
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How are we doing today
Am I overthinking ?
by powerfulLion9557
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Friday
Friday
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I am an only child and my husband has one brother. My husband and I have 2 children. My husbands brother got married recently and everyone in the family including grandparents, parents, cousins, my children (even the baby that wasn’t even in the wedding) were included in the book that they passed out for guest. Is it normal that I was not listed as I am the only “in-law”? Even the deceased family members (grooms mom and brides dad and brides special friend) were all listed in the phamplet except me. It truly hurt my feelings.
Afraid to connect again.
by peachVase6091
Last post
Friday
Friday
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I’ve gotten to a point in my life where I realize, I dont want a bunch of friends, I want a few truly GOOD ones. Friends you can talk to and not worry about blackmail, ones who are there for you and you’re there for them. Friends you can go grab a bite to eat with or go hiking with. People that TRULY get you. But after everything I’ve been through, I trust absolutely NO ONE. The idea of trying again seems foolish and like a waste of time, and I’m painfully lonely. I recently even had to leave my dog behind when I moved and it’s been more than I can handle. Life seems so dull, colorless, and pointless…
Am i too bad ?
by patientZebra2746
Last post
November 13th
November 13th
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Im simply wana some friends i feel so lonely and hear broken :(
Friendship Support
Welcome to Friendship Support! Friendship is a wonderful thing and here is a place you can celebrate it. Whether you want to share your successful friendships or discuss the relationships which aren’t going so well, this is the place for you. We are a relatively new community so please do not hesitate to reach out to a leader if you have any suggestions or feedback.
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