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How to Make Friends After Bullying – Yep, It’s Possible! 🫶
by kabir22
Last post
 November 16th, 2024
...See more Hey lovely people! 🌟 Okay, let's be real for a second—making friends after being bullied can feel like climbing a mountain in flip-flops. 🩴 It’s tough, and sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever reach the top. But guess what? You can, and you will. I’ve got your back with some tips to help you navigate this journey. Let’s dive in, shall we? 1. Start with Self-Acceptance (You’re Amazing, Period) Easier said than done, right? But honestly, you’ve been through something tough, and you owe yourself a bit of love. Take a moment to look in the mirror and say, “I’m worth knowing. I’m worth loving.” Because you are. Spend time doing the things that make you feel you. Whether it’s reading, painting, or watching that same sitcom for the tenth time—do it unapologetically. 2. Find Your Tribe (Safe Spaces, Anyone?) I’m talking about those places where you walk in, and nobody expects you to be anything other than yourself. Maybe it’s a local book club, a hiking group, or an online community where you can geek out about your favorite show. Shared interests make it so much easier to start conversations without all that pressure of impressing someone. Trust me, finding your tribe makes all the difference. 3. Talk About the Little Things (Big Things Come Later) You don't have to start with a TED Talk about your life. Try simple stuff like, “Hey, do you like pineapple on pizza?” 🍍🍕(And if they say yes, well, you’ve just found someone with impeccable taste.) Building friendships can start with these small, light-hearted conversations. 4. Be Honest (But No Need to Spill the Beans Right Away) It’s okay to let people in, but only when you feel comfortable. You don’t owe anyone your whole story, but sharing bits and pieces when you’re ready can help build real connections. It’s like slowly peeling back layers of an onion… except without the tears (hopefully). 5. Set Boundaries Like a Boss 🛑 Listen, you’ve already been through enough. It’s perfectly fine to have boundaries and to stick to them. If you’re not comfortable talking about something, say so. Real friends will respect that, and if they don’t, well, they’re probably not worth the energy. You deserve people who make you feel safe and respected. 6. Explore the Digital Universe (Making Friends Has Never Been So Wi-Fi Friendly) 📱 Online communities can be a lifesaver when meeting people face-to-face feels like scaling Everest. Whether it’s joining a fandom, gaming group, or a forum for your favorite hobby, there’s a whole world out there ready to welcome you with open arms (or, you know, enthusiastic emojis 🤗). 7. Be Kind, Be Yourself, and Be a Little Weird (Seriously, It’s the Best Combo) The most beautiful friendships are built on authenticity. Don’t hide the parts of yourself that you think are “too much” or “too weird.” Love binge-watching cat videos at 2 a.m.? Great. Enjoy talking to your plants? Awesome. The right people will find your quirks endearing, I promise. 8. Remember That Not Everyone’s a Jerk (I Promise) It’s easy to put up walls when you’ve been hurt, but not everyone’s out to break them down. Some people genuinely want to know the real you. Give them a chance—but keep that protective armor handy, just in case. ⚔️ 9. Patience, Grasshopper 🐛 You’re not going to become best friends with someone overnight, and that’s completely okay. Relationships take time to build. Every time you put yourself out there, even if it’s just a little “hello,” you’re making progress. Celebrate those small wins—they matter more than you think. You’ve Got This! 🌈 You’re more than the stuff you’ve been through. You’re resilient, you’re strong, and there’s a world of potential friends out there just waiting to meet you. So take a deep breath, put on that brave face (even if it’s a little wobbly today), and remember—you’re not alone in this journey. We’ve got your back. 💪 Anyone else got tips, stories, or a good pineapple pizza debate to share? 🍍🍕 Let’s hear them! Your voice matters, and who knows, you might just find a friend right here. 💛 ------------------------- Tagging some so this can be used as reference whenever needed - @Hope @ASilentObserver @MelodyoftheOcean @Heartsandrosesandpaws @SparkyGizmo @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @coolvibes @Boon4U
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Friendship Support Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
 March 19th, 2024
...See more Welcome to the Friendship Support Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 9 August 2024 (updated by @tommy) @AnimalLover2006 @Bella20 @braveFig6308 @dapperLunch1747 @daydreammemories @Gettingbettertoday @HarmonyBlossom @LucyGray1799 @Ninahdy @OakSerenity @politePeach9642 @raspberry563 @reginalistener18 @spectacularApricot7089 @tidyCurrent1882 @tommy
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Systemic Psychotherapy for Friendship Support
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 January 23rd, 2024
...See more Are you interested in improving your relationships, understanding yourself better, and developing new skills? If yes, you may be eligible to participate in our study. What is Systemic Therapy? Systemic therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on relationships between people and the patterns of interaction within the systems that impact the well-being of the individuals within the system. Healthy systems are encouraged by seeking balance within the system, as well as working on the roles and relationships involved. What is the Purpose of This Study? The purpose of this study is to explore how systemic psychotherapy-informed growth paths and listener training can help people to achieve personal growth and positive change. We want to understand how participating in the growth path or listener training can affect your relationships, thoughts, behaviour, and feelings, and how your past experiences influence your current patterns, behaviour, and relationships. What Are the Benefits of Participating? By participating in this study, you will: * Learn more about systemic therapy and how it can help you improve your relationships and well-being * Gain insights into your own patterns, behaviour, and feelings, and how they are influenced by your past and present experiences * Develop new skills and techniques * Contribute to research by answering questionnaires How Can You Sign Up? If you are interested in participating in this study, please read the full advertisement and sign-up form here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/ResearchParticipationOpportunitySystemicPsychotherapyinformedGrowthPathandListenerTraining_311588/]. We will contact you to confirm your eligibility and provide you with more information. Hurry up, as we have limited time available to participate in this research opportunity!
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friendship rarely last for me
by hopefulencounter
Last post
 3 hours ago
...See more I don't know why is it so hard for me to maintain friendship. I always try to be good with my friends, I helped them, I always replied to their messages.. I joke with them, but what usually happened is that that friendship doesn't last for long. And that made me feel like a bad person, weird person 😕.. I feel too scared to trust new bond now, I'm afraid they'll just leave me again in the end when they already feel bored of me. Maybe it's just me who overthinks too much, but maybe it's true. Idk, my negative thoughts win a lot..
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FRIENDS
by sunnyKoala8176
Last post
 19 hours ago
...See more As an international student who moved to a whole new country for college, I truly understand the troubles when it comes to making friends. It can be hard adjusting, being open, talking. You might feel judged and not understood beacause you are not like them. But I am here to ask that you join me on the path to confidence and communication.  Join me as I learn to speak my heart out, laugh like I just watched the most hilarious thing, and connect with others on a deeper level. Together, we can overcome the fear of being misunderstood and embrace the beauty of our differences. Let’s build bridges through open conversations, shared experiences, and genuine connections. It’s not just about fitting in—it's about finding your voice and letting it shine. So, let’s take this journey together, one step at a time, toward building friendships that last a lifetime. Are you ready?
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What to be friends?
by inventiveKitten4821
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more @Whyme3112 Hey, this probably seems strange 😅 but I saw your messages in the group chat but it was an hour later so I wasn’t sure if you were still on. It seems like you and I might have some stuff in common and I was wondering if you wanted to be friends? No worries if you would rather not! 😄
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Trying to make friends
by enthusiasticLion1523
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Hi, I'm still new to this platform and I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I'm looking for a friend. I'm currently taking a year off of college because of mental illness, and I'm alone all by myself at home. I want to make new friends, I think chatting with people and having friends around will help me through the loneliness and recover better. However, I'm autistic and I feel really insecure about social interactions, I've tried to start conversations with strangers but it didn't go very well. Sometimes I feel like I'm very bad at communicating with people. By making this post, I hope I can make some friends here, if you don't mind me being a bit weird, I just want to have someone I can chat with, and also have some fun or do things together. I listen to a lot of music and I also play games. I'm also down if u just have something u want to share. Let me know if u want to be friends with me:)
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Treating others respectfully
by NewDirections112
Last post
 Saturday
...See more Due to various reasons I've pushed all of my normal friends away. To be frank a part of me wasn't the nicest person at times, although I'm not a bad dude. I have a question: what's the best way to introduce myself to people in groups that I'm not apart of. I'm looking for quality friendships.
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I am looking for a friend.
by amiableFig1352
Last post
 Saturday
...See more I am looking for a friend
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Hey
by Amymimy2711
Last post
 Saturday
...See more @Macylou82 im sorry, i had to desapear from our last conversation, we were talking about felling sad seeing other ppl happy (my mom didn’t wanted me in the phone wile i was eating). Well, that feelings are normal and you are not alone, I know that sucks seeing someone being so happy wile you feel like trash, sometimes i feel like this. But also, sometimes is good, knowing one day, you will be (hopefully) one of those happy people who have a great life, I choose to think like that when I start to feel bad about it, even tho sometimes is not fair. I choose to cheer and be happy for them. I hope that you’ll be one of those happy ppl someday, and I’ll be right there cheering for you, and being happy seeing you happy, cause I know you deserve that. lots of hugs 🫂 -Amy
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I lost one of my closet friend.
by mani453beyourself
Last post
 Friday
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Does anyone have a friend like this?
by determinedSea4370
Last post
 Friday
...See more My best friend finally texted me back after about a month of silence. I have been falling apart without her support, analzying our friendship history and personalities and our last hangout and my last texts- like literally, she has been every other thought in my head. Thinking about her has kept me up at night, made me breakdown, drove me to drink more- part of the reason I am back on meds and in therapy and so active on 7cups is because she means so much to me and then pulls this *** that leaves me reeling and desperate. And I was expecting a text from her that would at least be an apology or some hint as to why she went ghost or asking how I was doing...but it was just this short thing with cute emojis saying 'wow! i didn't realize it's been so long since we talked. I've been in my own little world lol miss youuuuu'  So, she's been off in her world, not giving me a thought while I have been tearing myself apart grieving about her and our relationship almost every day?? Maybe she's ashamed about not contacting me, or she has thought of me this past month but doesn't want to talk about it because she only wants to move on to happy things but I AM FUMING.  There's a part of me that wants to be understanding and forgive her like I always do when she ghosts me (and she ghosts me at least 3 times a year) but this time she caused me SO MUCH PAIN. And she thinks she can just brush it under the rug with some cute emojis?? I know it's petty, but I cannot respond to her because I can't seem to calm down. Has anyone else experienced something like this??
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My mental health has ruined my friendships; What to do?
by Betterthoughts11
Last post
 Thursday
...See more To make a very long story short; I got out of a very bad relationship last year; which made my pre-exisiting mental health MUCH worse..these friends came and picked me up and helped me SO much through the year. But; I was not consistent in therapy, or other ways to grow, so I've hurt them badly.. I messed up. I was venting and sharing issues about other friends without taking steps to fix it, so it just ended up making them feel pinned against eachother, or like i purposefully tried to ruin the friend group, or like I was talking smack, this ENTIRELY wasn't my intention. But, that doesn't matter, because it happened wether i meant to or not. My mental state is so bad, I really thought/think everyone was out to get me/disliked me, but I didn't actually go address that with the person. There are some true and valid issues in the friend group that I didnt address, so it just looks like I was purposely a jerk. Its a mess of my own making...the guilt and pain feels crushing. My friends snapped at me, and asked for 6 months to a year of space, and then maybe we can try again at friendship. Their reaction is valid; my issues i had are valid, but i didnt handle them correctly. Despite this, I feel really wounded...how do I begin to manage the pain resulting from this?
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I lost everyone
by loyalPark9570
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more I lost everyone recently and don’t have a single friend and I feel so lonely I need some friends and Hoping to find some !?
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I lost one of my closet friend.
by mani453beyourself
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more May be I sound stupid but she is closet to my heart in the beginning of my life journey when I met her .We both had friendship for 5 years till last year .Now she don't need me anymore. She left ne and say that I don't worth her. She said to me that she was my bestfriend. Now she doesn't want me anymore.....

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