Feeling low
Never got to experience care and love in the family, rather treated as a robot or some other machine who does things that they want to.
With a *** up family where one doesn't trust each other but pays heed to other people's negative opinions about the other person.
Thought let's try get a life partner whom I could share my thoughts. But I was bought up like in a cage that it is not possible to sociallise easily, and guess what even no one even shows me any intrest in dating apps also.
@yeshu
Hi there💜 I am so sorry that you never got experience care and love in the family and the are also selfish just wanted people to always listen to them but not just that but also they are not trust each other then focus on another people’s negative opinion
It must be so tough for you to going through that. You are not alone💜 because I have been there too. The fact is we cannot control what they think. My family being like that too they just wanted to control people do as what they wanted and dont trust each other
About the partner I can see that you wanted to end the cycle of your toxic family. So you wanted a partner that isn’t like them. You are so brave to want to do that!! I am so proud of you!💜 that’s okay if you think like it is hard to find that you looking for, you have trust issues too because of your family but thats okay you will heal and you will find a partner that you looking for one day! you are so amazing to open up💜 congratulations! you are in the right path! keep going! it is okay to feeling low!
@yeshu Sounds like you have been in a difficult situation a lot of your life. I'm sorry you have had to feel like that. It can be hard to meet people and put yourself out there. However, don't give up! You can experience the care and love you deserve, even if it may not feel like it at times.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It sounds like you've faced some challenging circumstances in your family and may have felt isolated or restricted in socializing and dating. Remember that your upbringing and family situation don't define your worth or potential for meaningful connections.
While it can be tough to break free from the patterns you've experienced, it's never too late to seek personal growth and positive change. Consider exploring hobbies, interests, or activities that genuinely interest you. These can be great avenues to meet like-minded individuals who share your passions.
In terms of dating apps, it's important to approach them with an open mind and patience. Sometimes, it can take time to find the right connection. Keep being yourself, and over time, you may encounter someone who appreciates and values you for who you are.
Your journey to finding love and companionship may have unique challenges, but there's hope and potential for a fulfilling and loving relationship. If you ever want to talk more or need support, I'm here to listen and assist in any way I can. You deserve happiness and love in your life.
@yeshu I know how you feel - the sense of loneliness resulted from lack of care and love from family and others. Just want to let you know that you are not alone and the community here can help you if needed. Hopefully everything will turn fine!
I'm so sorry to hear you had to go through all this..it must've been hard for you . Looks like you're sad because of this behaviour of your family.
@yeshu
Hey, I know family problems can affect every other perspective in our life, It also affects our personality and mood so much, growing up in a place that lacks love and care is really hard, it seems that you are in desperate need of that as you tried looking for it in different places.. loving yourself and give it all the care it needs is a great kickstart to overcome these negative feelings, you are the one who knows what you need the most..
