My mom

@caringbear23
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Best wishes from Helga 68 years old.

Hi, I'm 24 years old, I'm living in a country with little opportunities, where most of people think that women only are to be a wife :(..!! and you always hear cook well to be a good wife, my mom never went to the school because she was poor and many people in my area didn't go as well, because in that age it was difficult to go, I'm studying many hours a day, most of the time I don't chores, my mom says you need to do it, you only study you are a lazy person, I don't feel good when she said those words, it hurts a lot when she works many hours but if I left the school I will loose many opportunities, I used work while I studied but know I can do it, today we had an argument because she said that she doesn't have an daughter and I said why you don't teach and didn't teach my brother to do chores, and she said yes but you don't do those things for them,ather communication, I got upset, I don't feel good I just want to have a great relationship with her, but we have never shared our feelings, I don't want argument with her because I love my mom, and I not feel good know..:(

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way due to your interactions with your mom. It's crucial to recognize that your feelings are valid and important, regardless of how others may perceive or respond to them. Sometimes, family dynamics can be challenging, and it's not uncommon for individuals to feel misunderstood or invalidated.

In situations where you feel belittled or unheard, it might be helpful to seek support from someone you trust, such as a friend, another family member, a counselor, or a therapist.