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Don’t know how to feel right now :(

TreaureSeekers3 November 15th, 2020

Hi, I don't know how to feel right now but feel like I'm slipping away or somethings not making sense and know why.

im in a relationship and been together for a year and few months now. We get on, there's chemistry we both love each other etc. Though it feels when we want to spend time together it always get interrupted. It's been like this for ages and I've done nothing but tell him we need more time together where your living which isn't too far from me but still good half hour you be better living back in town. He knows this and understands and he said he's gonna do it but I'm not saying this on my own benefit to get more time with him but just questions why is this still going on and he's not juggling or moving his diary around and changing his plans what's not so important to spending more time with me like a day or two more in the week or moving his commitments around. It's strange how he has time for everything else like his riding decorating his mums house where he lives at moment looking after kids etc but I always fall short. What can I do to have more time with him? I know new year is round corner and things won't change yet but not sure what can do from here? And I haven't heard from him cuz his excuse we be I'm busy when he could made time to talk to me. Like avoiding me :( feel sad. We get on really well and been talking about potential future having our place but it don't look like it's gonna happen. Can someone give me advice or help if you know what to do? I'm stuck. Thanks

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TreaureSeekers3 OP November 15th, 2020

Also to add that he's always on time schedule but due to him having to get back and see to kids and more that his mum needs him back. Also his mum relies on him a lot I believe and doesn't want him to move out cuz she will be lonely but I don't see why that's got anything to do with him. He's 38. If I was 38 I would of moved out by then I understand he's had kids and his life has not started off great but his mum needs to know that he will move out soon but don't want it to be cuz of me.