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What do you do when you have no one? My partner is just with me because of kids. He has so much resentment and anger and doesn’t hide it. Says horrible things to me but knows if he leaves he will not see the kids again (they are mine not his). He thinks so badly of me and has such a horrible opinion of me. Blames me for everything that goes wrong and never says anything nice about me
he loves the kids and they love him. But he hates being with me. He hates our relationship and puts all the fault in me. He is great with the kids and horrible to me.
i don’t have any friends. I don’t have anyone to talk to. I feel like I have to just put up with it for their sake. I feel like it’s all my fault and I really am to blame. I am the horribpe
person he says I am.
I almost died three years ago and it’s the anniversary of that now. I don’t know what to do.
@Pinkie256 I am so sorry you have been dealing with this. It sounds like you are feeling unappreciated and alone in a toxic relationship. Feel free to reach out to me if you would like to chat.
That relationship sounds really toxic and abusive. I think that you can rebuild best by starting from scratch. What would it take to force him to leave?
It sounds like you are staying because the kids love him, but they need to see the strong person that you are in escaping a bad situation. Would you want them to end up in your shoes? Sometimes loving yourself teaches them more than anything else that you can do.
We are here to support you whatever steps you take. @Pinkie256
