Self loathing/harm/guilt
I don't have a bad life... But I have made some mistakes recently that are eating away at me. I cheated on my ex and then I left her because we werent a god match and I knew I broke her heart. I can't seem to forgive myself. I feel like a shitty person and I miss her every single day. It's been a month and today I fought, successfully, the urge to self harm. I have so much going on in my life right now - my mom has a double masectomy in 2 days and I'm studying for the most important exam in my life. I have to force myself to focus on studying at least 8 hours everyday. I'm not sure what else to do.... If the self harm urges continue, eventually I will give in when my emotions are intense enough... It's awful, I know, but I get satisfaction from seeing blood which scares me. I switch between loving myself and hating myself. I constantly remind myself that I am not one mistake but it doesn't change the fact I hurt her.
@faithfulJar0519
Sorry that you have a lot going on in your life. Do you think that you could talk to your wife and talk things through and maybe get back together? If you are feeling bad and having bad thoughts can you call the crisis line? For the others things maybe you can pace yourself and take some small breaks.