Not open enough
Me and the man i love have been with each other for almost 3 years. Things are a bit complicated right now but it's still just me and him and we still love each other. I am a very guarded person, and do not like to open up to people because of trust issues form my past, and because i have always felt my problems aren't important enough for anybody else to be worrying about. Though i know he loves me and my problems are his problems, as his are mine, any time he will ask me what is wrong i just cannot tell him. It's like i just block him off and i can't let him know anything that goes on and he absolutley hates it, because we should be able to tell each other anything and everything. anyone else ever had a similar issue?
I think you need to ask yourself why? Why are you not opening up to your mate? Has he promoted trust towards you? Is there a root to your secrecy? Once you have identified this root; do you have a plan of process for these issues?
To get to the bottom line of why we respond to our lives the way we do is going to help promote trust inrelationships.
Just some thoughts. I hope this helps a bit.