Abandonment
About a month and a half ago i told one of my closest friends about my depression, which was the first time I had ever come out about it. She got really angry at the fact that i wasdisappointed that she didn't notice and even compared me to her ex saying that i was exactly like him. Since then she hasn't contacted me and has totally forgotten about me likeI never existed. Does this mean she doesn't care? Orrr...? Are there any suggestions as to what i should do? Because this really hurts.
It sound like your friend could not handle being criticized and she might have felt deeply hurt by what you said. That being said going no contact after that seems a little childish.
Do you want to recover the relationship or do you want to let go? Because both might be hard to do.Try asking your self what it is you needfrom her and if that is something that you can actually get from her. If it was so easy for her to just let the friendshipgo, just like that, how much effort and thought do you want to put into this?
What is it that you want?
