1 Feeling like a bad person for hating myself

CurWilliam
January 2nd, 2019
I always hear people say things like "You can't love anyone if you don't love your self first" and that makes me feel even worse about myself. I already feel like a worthless, unlovable waste of space and apparently on top of that I'm some sort of twisted psychopath who is incapable of loving another person. I wish I could get rid of this self-loathing, but this deep sense of shame is not helping at all.

IsolatedRomantic
January 2nd, 2019
Hello CurWilliam, I often deal with a similar problem of self-hatred and depression. Sometimes I would consider myself too cold to others where I enter a distant place of emtional disconnection, making me feel like a socio or psychopath. I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone, for what its worth <3
@CurWilliam