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The fear of failure

FireFly1892 September 29th

I am afraid of almost everything in life. But, I go out everyday and I am living a life. I think I lost the ability to feel love, but I crave it the most. I try to find ways, but I feel lost. I am active yet I'm so lazy. I question myself whether I am a good person or a bad one. I live in between of my two selves.



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RedWell September 29th

@FireFly1892

Nobody has all the answers. You seem really honest, a great and rare attribute. Praying for you...

toughTiger6481 September 29th

@FireFly1892

Do you have a reason to be fearful ... Is it really fear of failure or fear of what if it works out ? 

I find some people who live in between...... claim failure is the issue but more it is they are not prepared and ready if everything went right.   if successful in something it is work to maintain example get a great job the expectations continue .... In a relationship starts out with smaller expectations yet as it develops your partner may expect more in building a life.... 

In my mind failure means get back up and try again ... success is ok what will i face now .... like a video game we want to reach the next level ... when we get there new obstacles arise.