I miss her
Recently my best friend and I’s friendship ended over the fact that I had told her about how I felt as if she wasn’t putting effort into our friendship, while I was putting my heart and soul into it. She told me how she stopped reaching out because I always left her on read or delivered, which I know I had never done. I would always respond quickly to her, if anything I was always so excited to talk to her. I was always texting her about dumb stuff and asking her if she wants to hangout (which she would always make a reason not to) And that isn’t some pitiful, “I’m the victim not you!” But I genuinely failed to see how I am the one at fault? If she had truly felt this way, talk to me about it. That’s what friends do, communicate. It makes me disappointed. I should be mature, tell myself she wasn’t a good friend and forget about her. But she was my only friend, my first choice, my favorite person. But now I understand I was never hers, and that hurts.
@raspberryEast5950 Maybe she wasn't a good friend but you were, you put efforts in maintaining your friendship with her and to see it still fail is disappointing and upsetting.
Being hurt about the end of something that mattered so much to you, being sad about the loss of a special friendship cannot be labelled as being immature<3 You are very mature in the way you wanted to handle it all. It's okay to grieve this loss, you're allowed to question what went wrong.
I really hope you find friendships where you are respected and appreciated just as much<3