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I'm a disaster

imaginativeFig739 February 11th

I'm not an english native but I want somebody to read me, I'll try my best


I'm 22, I've finished my career the last year and I still don't have a job. I feel like an empty person, I have no goals, dreams, I can't see my future.. the only thing I see is me in my worst version, worst than I am actually. I have the urgency to change, I've been wasting my time my whole life, but there's so many things in all the aspects that I have to change, how could I do that? I didn't change in 22 years, am I gonna change now??? I wish I could never been born at all, I really really wish it but sadly I'M HERE. God please, I want u to take me with u haha



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tranquilechoes February 11th

@imaginativeFig739

Hey there, beautiful soul,


Firstly, let me gently say that it's okay to feel lost sometimes; life can be a bit overwhelming, can't it? I hear you, and your feelings are valid.


You're not alone in this journey, and it's never too late for change. Take a deep breath and acknowledge the strength it takes to open up about these emotions. You've already taken a brave step.


It's important to recognize that change doesn't happen overnight, and it's perfectly okay not to have everything figured out at 22. Life is a journey, not a race, and each step forward, no matter how small, is a victory in itself.


Remember, you're not defined by your job or your current circumstances. You have so much more to offer to the world, and your uniqueness is your strength.


Instead of seeing yourself in your worst version, try to focus on the positive aspects of who you are. What are your strengths, your passions, the things that bring you joy? Start small, set achievable goals, and celebrate your victories, no matter how minor they may seem.


And sweetheart, please be kind to yourself. You are worthy of love, success, and happiness. You have the power within you to shape your future. Embrace the journey of self-discovery, and don't be too hard on yourself.


If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you. You are not alone, and there are people who care about you. Reach out to friends, family, or a professional who can provide support.


Life has its ups and downs, but it's filled with moments of beauty and growth. You're stronger than you think, and I believe in your ability to create positive change. Take one step at a time, and remember, there's a whole world of possibilities waiting for you.


Sending you love, light, and endless encouragement. You're not alone on this journey, and you have the strength to make a beautiful life for yourself. 💖✨