Hate is a strong emotion for a reason
You see, Its not easy to hate. But when someone say I hate that person that means he or she master must have some solid reason to hate that person. I hate every single man I have loved. Or thought to love. I hate them. I simply hate them. everyone of them. because they hurt me brutally. cheated on me. Ghosted Me. gaslighted me. I suffered a lot Because of them. I am still suffering. Why I dont know how to live alone? Why? Anyone can tell me how I wont feel the need of anyones presence?
@Shorttimer
Hi ❤️ I’m sorry you’ve been struggling.
Hate can be a very strong feeling. It can often feel exhausting, in my experience. I notice that when I feel hate or resentment, I’m often in more agony than anyone else.
I’m sorry that you’ve been through these things, it isn’t fair to you. Healing is a process, and it’ll take time to work through these things, and how they treated you. It’s hard to function alone when you’ve been attached to or depended on someone else, especially in an unhealthy dynamic. It’s understandable that it’s hard to live alone. Healing takes time, give yourself grace. You’re doing great ❤️
@Shorttimer
Do you mean hate, or anger?
I can totally understand you may feel angry, furious, mistreated, hurt, wounded, cheated, assaulted, belittled, disappointed... especially in the circumstances you were in.
But I am afraid hatred is something different. It is not a feeling. It is a state of mind. And it can be blocking you from receiving any good things from those people who don't mean to hurt you.
How do you think you could change your life's routines to start meeting better people?
I fully agree.
