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Getting Married - Creating Issues at Workplace

User Profile: greenComputer7185
greenComputer7185 November 27th

I am getting married in next 3 months. The top management is concerned that I will leave the job and move forward. They are questioning me a lot. Also people are toxic and talking behind my back about my marriage and that i will leave. What to do. Please help.

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User Profile: jacek73
jacek73 November 27th

@greenComputer7185

Hello. It is sad to hear that a company you are working for might be making you feel insecure while doing such a positive thing like getting married.

I believe the way your management sees those things might be very short-sighted, because it's usually not the marriage what makes people leave their jobs, but a lack of personal growth, bad working atmosphere, management and co-workers who are too difficult to get on well with or (last but not least) poor salaries.

When people get married, they look for stability, and when they have a good job or a house, they usually do their best to not lose it.

But it seems you cannot change the way people at your workplace may see the things. 

How would you like to just smile every time they mention it? 😊 Isn't it all about your personal life and happiness?