Bpd Relationship
Hi! I’m looking for advice on how to manage a relationship with a partner who has bpd. We’ve been going through some highs and lows and I need someone to talk to about it who understands bpd.
@jaspermoonlight So sorry your struggling right now.
I hope things get better for you soon.
Maybe try a listener here at 7cups.
They might be able to help you.
I hope this helps.
I’m having similar issues my fiancé and I are having some of the worst lows rn and idk if it will end I understood a lot of what ur probably feeling and I need someone to talk to as well I sometimes feel so defeated and unwanted but loved at the same time
@jaspermoonlight hi there! I have BPD and I'm in a relationship. It's definitely a challenge, for me and for my fiancee.
What I find that helps is: open communication, setting up a date of the week to talk about our problems and what we did good during the week, setting up our boundaries, letting her know my thoughts so she can understand me better.
When I found out I had bpd I also shared with her a lot of information on bpd so she could know-how to deal with me. Perhaps that will be possible for you to do as well.
Wish you the best and thank you for trying to make it work!