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What am I supposed to do?
intuitiveHickory2911 March 15th, 2022

Hi everyone, hope you're all having a good day.


I'm in a stressful situation. I'm in my 30's and I live with my mom who's a narcissist. I can't seem to make enough money to get out on my own. I'm constantly being manipulated and accused of things that I haven't done. It's exhausting living with someone like this. I thought parents were supposed to love you not manipulate you. My only two options are living with my abusive parent or being homeless.


Jobs never work out for me. I can't find anything I like doing and I don't have the money to move somewhere and pursue other opportunities.


How am I supposed to be successful in this country when I can't even afford a 1 bedroom apartment?


Encouragement is welcomed. Thank you.

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Sweetbuttercup33 March 25th, 2022

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