The morning after a let down
My bf and I have been having some problems for a few months. We had a big fight and he was supposed to call me to talk about things. He never did. So now Im anxious because I wanted to resolve things and I feel like hes stalling. Apart of me wants to let go and try to move on , but the other part wants things to work out. Today I dont want to reach out. Well see if I can actually do that , sigh.
@Antoniette12
I'm so sorry to hear that you are having some issues right now with your boyfriend, I can understand how you feel. Maybe the reason why he hasn't replied you is because he needs some time to cool down and self reflect, and from what I can tell, maybe he just needs some extra time to be rational about his decision making. Sometimes I also do this when I argue with someone, I take a really long break to make sure I'm in the right mental state to follow up with the argument. If not, I might say something out of spite and this can consequently affect the relationship in a really bad way. I'm sure he's just trying to gather his thoughts so he knows exactly what to say to you, after all, he might just be worried about saying the wrong thing to you, so give him some time! While waiting, you could also think about what you would like to say to him. I sincerely hope you two can make up and go back to normal, and it's also a good thing to note that arguments aren't always bad, they can sometimes build the foundation of a relationship as resolving arguments can help you to build a stronger sense of mutual understanding between each other.
I wish you all the best :)