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adaptableHouse3519 August 23rd, 2022

I’m losing my job in the middle of wedding planning. I’m in an industry where getting a new job takes around 3 months if you’re lucky. I absolutely cannot deal with this right now and I’m so angry and panicky and I just want ONE THING in my life to not be as difficult as it possibly could be. What do I do? We can’t postpone the wedding because we’ve already made deposits. I just really can’t handle this and I need an immediate fix to this. I really really need help with this but I can’t spend any money.

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innateJoy9602 August 23rd, 2022

@adaptableHouse3519

I'm very sorry about this.

Loosing a job can be difficult. Let alone loosing one while planning a wedding.

My heart goes out to you<3

Keep your head up<3 💛✨

HealingTalk August 25th, 2022

@adaptableHouse3519

Losing your job in the middle of your wedding planning might be genuinely terrifying.

I will feel very scared in such a situation.

What would I do?

I would go forward with the wedding, accepting that I am temporarily jobless.

There is no shame in being jobless. It can happen at any time to anyone.

In about three months you will have another job, and this will be just an awful memory.

Don't be ashamed, carry yourself with full dignity, because you are deserving of respect.

Getting married involves courage, and even more in these conditions.

I admire you for this courage.

I wish you that everything goes great with the wedding and that you find a good job in a few months.

All the best!

Marcelo.



compassionateCar7091 August 27th, 2022

You definetly have alot on your plate right, maybe practice breathing techniques and maybe some lavender essential oil with help alleviate some of you anxiety

sympatheticNectarine5897 August 29th, 2022

I totally understand how you feel!


My wedding is in 2 months. Last month I broke my ankle and Mr.man tore his hamstring. We've both been out of work as a result and insurance has been a nightmare. Essentially no income in coming in. And we've got so much to try and cover. I've been trying to figure out how to pay for everything for the wedding when we don't even have enough to buy groceries.


It may take 3 months for you to get another job in your field, and that may not feel ok. But it is ok becauae its something you can't control. Take a little of this time to take a breath and regroup. Maybe you could work a part time or temporary position in something outside of your field just for a little while to help bridge that gap?


Best of luck to ya! I'm cheering you on from the sidelines💕