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Job Loss and wedding planning

adaptableHouse3519 August 14th, 2022

Hello all,


This past week I was forced to put in my two weeks notice at my job. I had this job for about 5 months, and I got it after a year or so of job searching. I’m being terminated due to poor job performance, despite the fact that I wasn’t given the normal training for the job. Numerous issues that were out of control were blamed on me. I am still expected to come in and work as normal over the next two weeks. I’m worried that I’ll have a panic attack at work, but I guess that doesn’t really matter.


in addition to all of that, I am in the middle of planning my wedding. I’m now worried that the wedding will have to be cancelled due to my unemployment.


I am not prepared to job hunt again. I’m not doing well, can’t really eat anything, can’t relax, can’t concentrate, it’s all too much.


I have no idea what to do. I got totally screwed over. I’m sick of all of my hard work meaning nothing.

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innateJoy9602 August 14th, 2022

@adaptableHouse3519

Hello!

I can't imagine what you are going through right now. It must be so stressful. I hope things work themselves out and you can have your wedding. Sending warm greetings. I appreciate you opening up to the community! You got this!🌿🌺

mWttrs2 August 29th, 2022

I understand you. It's really hard especially before the wedding. Try to take it for granted. Go to work and do what you can while looking for another one. I think you will be lucky with the job! For a job well done, I often sacrifice my sleep, free time and mood. Now that I have become more experienced, I use the help of sites such as apix drive (especially this integration https://apix-drive.com/en/blog/how-to/facebook-and-agile-crm-integration ) to spend less time at work. It works really well and I have more time to relax. I wish you luck and I think everything will work out for you with work and the wedding

Littlecoconut5313 September 1st, 2022

Hey OP, I’m in a similar situation and honestly I can really relate. It feels really overwhelming because of the lack of money coming in and then on top of it having to plan a wedding. Just know that just because this job didn’t work it doesn’t mean you are not worthy or good enough. It is a process for sure. Try not to be too hard on yourself though. 🌺