Anxiety from Frat Parties

I'm a listener, and I always get this question.

'hi, i was wondering if you have been to a frat party because (a significant other) has invited me to come with them'

I wanted to make this post public, because yes, I haven't been to one, and I've also thought it should be an accessible post just because some people haven't been to them.

Just share your thoughts if you ever been to them or what you would say if you were in my shoes!