Anxiety about being lonely
Around me it seems like everyone has a person. And the few friends I do have are all in relationships. I try and try again but sometimes I feel Im never enough for a guy. It worries me that Ill never find someone. But I keep hope! Better things are always coming.
@emily12200 that is exactly what I am going through. Life is tough and it constantly throws nonsense your way. I was in a 9 year relationship, so happy, so in love... and it all fell apart. sometimes i dont want to be with anyone because you dont ever know truly their thoughts and what they are going through. then your heart gets broken. i feel like im all alone and forever will be. I want kids and a husband to take care of i have so much love to give and the thought of being alone for the rest of my life is so scary. Right now, is your chance to find yourself, and love yourself. Be kind to yourself, have a relationship with yourself.. understand you and your heart. Your partner will come along, because you have a great heart. but it is good to love yourself, so you can love your significant other the best way you know how. keep your head up, youre a beautiful soul
Dear @MysteriousGrape830
I think I might be going through the same thing,my 3 year relationship just almost crashed and Im struggling deep down to forgive my partner for all the hurtful things he said to me during our short break up,I wonder how someone who lives you so much would be so wiling and adamant to let you go after going through so much together,Im still depressed even though were still together because I feel he still feels he might be better off without me,please how do I learn to live myself without feeling like Im chocking on air,how do I grow to insert myself again and maybe detach my emotions and mental health from him without having a panic attack?...
Dear guys, Im new to this and I just realized that I have a psychological problem,Im obsessive about my partner,the last time we had a fight I bit him all over his shoulders and arm because he threatened to leave,I felt dead as soon as he left,were still together but my mental problem still makes me think he doesnt want me anymore,I keep fearing hell leave and never look back someday as he tried this last time.. He thinks my insecurity level is off the charts,please I need help
i feel like i just get sad cause i feel like i
i feel like i just get sad cause i feel like i
Well, I used to be anxious few days ago. For not being able to find the right one for me, family restriction, my wrong choice for job, desire to earn more. Talking to listeners here has helped me. I am content than i was 2 week ago. 2 week is a very short period of time. I wont relapse because i know i have help here. I talked to listeners and whenever any of their points made sense to me, sparked liveliness, comfort, opened my mind, i just tried telling them to myself, sometimes like a kid learning spellings of words, sometimes like a sage. I copy pasted the chats that were good for me. I read them later on depending on which chat read can help me in a situation. But yes I accepted I AM MY ProBLEM, I need to accept what I am. I know that I am letting myself totally down to wait for person who could be the only reason of my happiness when i know i can keep myself atleast like a normal healthy person, happy and content too, rather than putting my everything in the hope of person and make him feel suffocated and burdened. . I need to give the love to myself I deserve, not wait for someone else be the reason for my anxiety thought. I am just paying my duties towards myself.