Buying a house panic
Hello, I decided to try and buy my first house, I've put an offer which was accepted and everything was exciting until that moment and as soon as they accepted the offer and ever since I've been experiencing extreme panic and anxiety about everything, with contradicting panics aswell. My first melt down was thinking I didn't want this anymore, now it's incase I don't pass the credit check so won't get a mortgage agreement.
There's been points when I've been close to withdrawing from the offer because I can't cope with this anymore :(
@AnnaDewitt
Hi there. It sounds like what you figured would probably be a really fun an exciting experience is turning into a huge source of stress! I feel like one of the reasons that might be really upsetting is because the experience is probably really different than you were expecting. Sometimes we have a picture in our mind of how things are going to go, and if the picture and reality do not match, it can really be super upsetting. I think that anxiety always means something and it is important to pay attention to it. While I think some anxiety over big life changing decisions is totally normal, I feel like a huge amount or panic attacks might mean there is something important in the situation that you have not figured out yet. I feel like ideally a decision that is the "right" one for us will feel a lot more peaceful and will easily jive with our core values. Good luck!