Relationship
So last night my boyfriend was with his friends and they went on a walk, he was in the same spot for ages and looked like it was someone’s house and then his replies became really strange and he kept going active and ignoring me and avoiding my questions, then when he got back to his friends he sent me really loving messages saying he love me so much and misses me and wishes I was there - so obviously I was suspicious and asked and he got very defensive about it. Then today he has been very weirdly nice and it seems he’s guilty about something, everyone agrees. Am I overthinking or could this be something? What do you think I should do?
@m1705
It has been sometime since you wrote this I hope you have had time to reflect and get some clarity.
So he went somewhere and you were tracking using locator on phone...seems sort of a system built to create this problem.
then he did not want to talk about it. it does not have to be something bad or the first thing we think either...if he tells you great it not let it go .
your choice to have trust or treat him as guilty until proven innocent.
Sometimes I have thoughts like this with my bf. I know that it can be such a scary and overpowering thought. You should try to trust your bf. If he says he’s going out for a walk with his friends then let him have that space! Checking his location is only going to make you more anxious and overthink.
@m1705
It’s a tough situation to be in, when one feels they can’t trust their partner. Regarding if you’re overthinking, It’s hard to say without more context. Ignoring someones messages doesn’t necessary mean they are cheating. It could just be that he was busy or distracted catching up with his friend. Likewise, being defensive I think is a normal reaction to being accused of cheating. I suppose you know him best and if your gut is telling you something is off, then you should trust it.
