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lostanddelirious31 April 29th, 2023

I am a type of peraon that gets hurt easily. I am often left by my partners because I am very honest with what I feel. They call.me overreacting and very talkative.


Imshe would often say I am crazy for being too expresive and yhat I am crazy for crying.



I am lost, am I not bormal because I cry easily?

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hopefulPond6108 April 29th, 2023

@lostanddelirious31 Your feeling are your feelings. So don’t apologize for them and don’t feel bad if someone else has an opinion on YOUR feelings.

That said, in human relationships we are somewhat responsible for managing our communication - in a sense, for managing the feelings of our partner.
Dumb example:
Him; Check out the bla bla bla on my new ride
Her: (Thinking: that looks kinda ***) (Saying: Looks awesome babe!)
GildedGhost April 29th, 2023

@lostanddelirious31

Please don't worry. You're not alone. I'm also very sensitive and oftentimes I go home and cry for hours if someone raises their voice at me or calls me a mean word. I easily worry about what people think of me and if their tone of voice changes even a little bit, I immediately think they're mad at me.

We're all human and each and every one of our feelings are natural. If someone doesn't like you because of that, take no offense. Those sorts of people have nothing else going on in their heads. Just remember that feelings are your brain's way of telling you something's wrong. Communicate those feelings in a civilized way is the key.