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The Impact of Repressed Emotions on Mental and Physical Well-being

User Profile: DRCherif
DRCherif October 30th, 2023

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Adults who have repressed emotions frequently feel detached from their emotions since they experienced a different childhood experience.

You may be more likely to suppress feelings, for example, if your caregivers:

They rarely expressed emotion or talked about their feelings.

You were shamed or penalized for expressing your emotions.

disputed your experience or told you that your emotions were incorrect

If expressing your emotions as a child resulted in upsetting or painful effects, you undoubtedly learnt that it was far safer to avoid doing so totally. As an adult, you may continue to conceal deep feelings without realizing it. You may also realize that you tend to put aside even the emotions you do detect

Can it really lead to physical symptoms?

“Hold on,” you might think. “My emotions don’t make me sick… do they?”

They actually can, in a way

Stress, anxiety, and suppressed feelings may manifest as physical symptoms, such as feeling sick or vomiting: this may occur even when the individual is perfectly physically fine, but the source of the problem is actually his mental state, whether that individual is feeling a lot of stress or anxiety that he doesn't know how to express, or he's feeling overwhelmed by things that he can never share with anyone, as if the body tried to tell himso that physical symptom is like a distress call that you don't want to ignore it 

don't ignore your feelings


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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 30th, 2023

@DRCherif hi I'm Lola ❤ thanks for this post. I don't really understand my feelings or emotions. So I put on my happy face. But yeah! I know it's not doing me any good. Just not sure how to let it all out. I find being kind to others is easier than being kind to me

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User Profile: DRCherif
DRCherif OP October 30th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 I'm delighted you reached out. It is completely understandable to struggle with understanding and expressing your emotions.

Putting on a happy face for others can be both a source of strength and a source of stress. It's wonderful that you find it easier to be kind to others, but it's also important to be kind to yourself. Your emotions are valid, and you deserve to be kind to yourself.
It's okay if you're having difficulty letting it all out. It's a process, and you can take things one step at a time. Perhaps begin by acknowledging your emotions without judgment. You could talk to someone you trust about what you're going through, or you could try creative outlets like journaling or art.
This practice helps you connect with yourself better and identify and express your feelings clearly and safely. Therapeutic writing promotes awareness, as well as a sense of liberation and serenity, through this process. I encourage to dig more into therapeutic writing that's a good first step into understanding yourself 
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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 30th, 2023

@DRCherif ok ❤ thanks

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User Profile: EllieMano
EllieMano November 2nd, 2023

Hey @DRCherif

This is a fascinating subject. Repressed emotions and prolonged stress can manifest as physical problems, and I'm sure most of us discovered this the hard way. Your body and mind are linked, and your body might occasionally express distress signals in reaction to unspoken emotions or overwhelming stress.

It is not about your emotions making you 'sick' in the classic sense, but rather how emotional strain may impact your entire well-being. Stress and emotional repression may cause your body to respond with symptoms such as feeling ill. It's your body's way of communicating that something needs to be addressed, and we shouldn't ignore it.

No one has to go through this alone. It's so important to acknowledge and address feelings in a healthy way, and seeking support is the first step of healing. 

Our bodies are temples, and we should take care of them.

Thank you for sharing this topic and spreading awareness!