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Losing own self...

Toma24 October 18th

Ever happened with you guys That you are a person with a giving nature, You can't say No to people and demand what you #Need and People who are constantly getting from you, taking everything you can give has no concern about your need and wellbeing? Never give any thought what you may need? Never show respect for ur space? All they are taking your generous nature for granted? 

And at the end of the day you feel so wasted and empty that you can't give your self anything?  No time to work on your own dreams and hobbies?  You feel horribly empty? 

The fear of losing own self is horrific.. Horrific... Horrific 💔

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BeautifulRose66 October 18th

@Toma24 

One of the biggest lessons I've learned is that sometimes life requires us to be a little selfish. It's important to protect our energy, prioritize our own needs, and set boundaries. People will take as much as you give, but it’s up to us to respect ourselves enough to say no when necessary. You can’t pour from an empty cup—take care of yourself first.

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Toma24 OP October 19th

@BeautifulRose66
right... very much agree..! have to start working on that! thanks for your words :)

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funnySquare7011 October 19th

I totally understand what you are feeling. I feel the same way. Always doing for everyone else, and ignoring my own needs.