How do I fight the urge while alone?
I've been addicted to porn for roughly 15 years. Recently has been off and on. 2 months free currently. Now I find my mind thinking about it. The real reason why I stopped is because I started talking to a girl I was heavily interested in. She was great for me. We stopped talking a few days ago. We knew a relationship wasn't going to work out and we had stuff to work on. Now she's not here. I actually liked her so much and cared for her and started to fall for her a bit. My heart hurts and now the urge has come back quite strong. I'm a Christian and know the devil is tempting me because I'm the weakest I've been in a long time. I feel broken, because I briefly thought I found my wife and she's not here. I don't want to give in. I can't. But it's hard. I just need help feeling whole again and not relapsing. This is a very hard time in my life. Maybe the hardest.