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Addicted to a person who have no interest in me

bestLake6056 September 11th, 2021

Hi everyone,

am new to this group intact I have joined today itself

since this COVID started am not going good I was always in anxiety and sad mood and I also was stuck in some toxic relationship and was unable to got over of my ex

but recently I met a guy like 5 months ago and I really felt connected and we had good time too but we were not in any relationship or commitments since there was no future for us but I got so attached to him and liked him a lot but the started avoiding me and trying to get onto others , since then am unable to do anything , I feel very low and stressed always and am unable focus on my work from last 5 months am juz doing nothing no focus concentration , all I juz do is wait for his messages and to meet him , I really want to get over of all this and have a normal life

I would love to talk with someone who has gone through same situations like me

right I feel left alone because my friends and family is not around and i feel very lonely




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dannyone September 11th, 2021

Hi

Covid has been a tough time for lots of people. I'm no different it definitely take its toll.


It's almost trapped me into certain habits.

Have you spoken to this person about how you feel?

Do you know how they feel?

Have you asked them what they want.

More importantly have you said what you want to him.


I'm a great beliver in talking things over with the other person to know the boundaries and where we stand.





bestLake6056 OP September 12th, 2021

he Is not bad

he spoke to me very clearly that he is not into emotional things and ol , also I agreed on all of it

but some times you cannot plan things and execute and by the time I realised I was in deep shit