I'm making a hard decision
My sister was my groomer, and I've finally realized what was going on myself. In the past when I made the decision to detach and let go came the phone calls of crying and sometimes anger. After that came the emails. I've found myself time and time again seeking approval or the most simple things in life from her. No more, I'm detaching and letting go.
@amicableox0685
The realization can be so overwhelming and hard-hitting, but I'm so so proud of you for recognizing the signs to detach and let-go, a hard decision when you've been constantly deprived of your individuality :( but supremely commendable to do it for yourself. You got this.💛
It sounds like that would be a wise decision! No offense but she sounds a bit toxic? I don't know your story but I'm here if you want to chat. Stay strong!
@joyy26
Yes, there's a lot that has happened with her personally and the situation as a whole, but definitely I realize I was being groomed. I've already taking the steps to withhold contact but there are times when I find myself reaching out to her again. Yes she's a relative and yes I'm concerned about her well being, but now I see how it's affected mine...as a whole.
Thank you for your concern, I've actually made a lot of progress before making a concrete decision.
