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Is partying an addiction ?

Annemarie163 March 8th, 2021

I have been dating a man for 6 months, he doesn’t seem to be able to control his parting, he likes drugs and raves. Any experiences on this issue? Is it considered an addiction ? Thanks

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Thatoneguy1387Sunysulman March 8th, 2021

No it’s a sick cycle that’s hard as hell to break. He’s masking his real feelings with the drugs he has some issue that’s been unresolved past trauma or just isn’t happy with himself sober he does it to change the way he feels

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Annemarie163 OP March 8th, 2021

Thank you for your reply, I completely agree with you, but it’s algo really hard to understand that there’s nothing I can do. I can’t solve his issues, it’s sad because I care a lot about him. Hope you have a great day 🤗

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diverseNightJaymZ March 28th, 2021

It's certainly a complex set of issues. I've been on both sides of addiction. Raves can be a bad influence if self control is a problem for him, however raves can also be a wonderful congregation of peoples focused on music, dancing, kindness, self expression, and acceptance of one another. Drug use may or may not be an addiction. There is the possibility depending on the drug that he could be physically addicted. Regardless of the physicality, there is a psychological component of wanting to feel different than his normal self. That is certainly something that he should seek professional help for. Let me know if you want to hear more of my story or my advice.