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...See more This is going to be long one so I apologise in advance So I met this guy a year ago. He was really sweet to me, always looking out for me and very caring and I did the same for him. He always warned me that getting too close to him is going to hurt because he had trauma since his dad passed away 5 years ago when he was 13. I thought I could help him since I had some family trauma too and I should support him and I was also in love with him. It turned out to be mutual and he said he would want to marry me when the time comes but the moment long distance came to be a possibility he started to back out. I tried to end things because it was giving me trust issues but he just wouldn't let me go and give no reassurance. Furthermore, whenever I used to bring an issue up he would get very defensive and blame the whole thing on me. We had many issues going on, and I tried to hold on to him despite how sad he constantly kept me, he never got me flowers, showed frustration on the days to be celebrated and stopped loving me but always came back when I broke up which made me doubt his intentions. Whenever I used to back out and try to leave him he would come back all miserable and the guilt made me let him come back but the last time I got a breakdown of all this he easily said he is fed up with me and just left I feel so hurt, so guilty and hate myself even though I gave him my best, trying to make cupcakes to apologise which he just dropped and didn't even eat. I don't know how to proceed anymore, I have medical entrance exam in a few months with a competition of 24 lakhs and I have lost all motivation when I never dreamt of a career other than a doctor.

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