Suggestions for coping with family stress during the holidays

@halcyonCloud2036

Hear you , being around too many people at once can be overwhelming indeed and feeling the need to be away , take a break are all valid ❤ so commendable of you to look for different ways to cope with it .

We sure can be grateful and be more accepting, but gratitude has nothing to do with invalidation ~ even while being grateful to our loved ones, sending time with them and any other holiday related feelings , we can still feel like needing a break and that's super okay also ! ❤

7 cups community is truly amazing, there's so much support , resources and people in the same boat as ourselves, that sure is comforting hehe ! I'd like to give credit to @Sher217 for making super thoughtful threads on this exact topic lately and I hope you find those helpful too, Cloud 😊

Linking it Here and more Here (clickable)

Sending warm regards ✨

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Hey Sunni 👋

💜💜💜💜 says it all

And thank you for spreading the word about the Family & Caregivers discussions 🙂

~ Sher

@Sher217

Hey sher, thankyouu hehe, purple hearts backkk💜💜

And ofcourse , pleased to !

Thanks for sharing the great tips alsooo 🤗

@halcyonCloud2036

Hey Cloud 👋

Yes! I can 100% relate to what you've described 💜

A 'trick' that saved me through the years was the phrase "I'm going to step outside for some air but I'll be right back". To be honest, the loudest people didn't even notice that I had stepped away, lol. This gave me a minute to literally take some deep breathes, allow my ears to stop ringing from all the noise and also to settle my nerves by grounding myself.

I didn't do this for any other motivation than to help myself calm down and prepare to go back in again. A side benefit was that sometimes a quiet member of the family would step outside also, for a quiet moment, and we could share and support one another for a few moments 😀

For your last questions:

It's okay to love and appreciate family members (even the ones that can make you crazy, lol)

I think accepting them, as they are, is a wonderful thing (*when possible)

Most importantly, I think finding little ways to do what is healthy and best for you should be #1 💜 We are able to give to others easier when our own cups is filled with warmth, comfort and love for ourselves.

These are just my thoughts on how I made it through gatherings with family. I hope something sparks your own ideas for what works best for you.

Best wishes

~ Sher

@halcyonCloud2036

I do understand. Different and difficult personalities in my family. i just try to stay positive keep smiling and keep moving.