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Grief & Loss / by Indianchick1987

1 hour ago

...See more I got married over a year ago. My husband and I met five years ago through work. At the time I just ended a long abusive relationship and wasn’t looking for anything at the time. He was going through a divorce from a 20 year marriage. He and I in my opinion clicked. One thing led to another and I fell for him. But one thing I noticed at the beginning he would play the come to me then push me away game. Unfortunately a year later his ex wife passed, and even though they weren’t together he was heartbroken. I tried to help him the best I could and be there for him and his two younger daughters. About three years ago I finally got up the nerve to ask him to marry me and it was a back and forth and he finally agreed. I should’ve seen the BIG red flags just the past things that happened between us. During our engagement he broke it off citing that he couldn’t be with me due to his faith which I’m converting to (not for him or anyone else but for myself) I was heartbroken then three months later he contacted me saying he couldn’t live without me and wanted to marry me and he asked my family for their blessing. We got married and that’s when I realized it was all falling apart he was drinking constantly and not looking for work which I was working two full time jobs and trying to take care of my new family. In the marriage around six months or so later he told me he wanted a divorce due to not being compatible and moved out and tried to rebuild my life. Three months later he contacted me since the divorce didn’t go through he wanted to make it work. He had been working and then getting his life back together about two weeks ago. Everything just went to crap. He had lost his job a month ago and everything that happened a year ago happened again. It was a situation where the police were involved. He was arrested and jailed. I can’t ever see him again, but I did talk to him and he said he wanted a divorce because he thought it would be the best but then he contacted me again saying he wanted to make it work. I feel like he keeps on playing with my heart and I can’t keep on doing this.

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General Support / by AzzyDaRazzy

1 hour ago

...See more Okay so- Update!! Ive done some reasearch(probably not enough). And to be honest, I'm so glad I got told to do reasearch about this stuff. I've done small reasearch about DID and just dissociation in general. i naturally dissociate a lot since i have adhd, and i thought it was like- fine. but whats been happening hasnt been regular dissociation. right now, i feel a bit better, but i still feel a little off. This feeling has happened in the past, having itstarted since i was around 8, but it wasnt as bad as it is been for the past few days. I've always automatically ignored it, but i havent been able to lately. that weird fuzzy feeling, the feeling confused on who i am and that this isnt my body and etc. It's never been this sever, but i think its because this is the most genuinely stressed ive been in awhile. Anyway back to the reasearch topic. The one that matches what im feeling the most is a type of OSDD, I'll copy and paste since I don't feel like typing it in my own words... *Having chronic dissociative symptoms such as identity alteration, but thealteration and separation between identities is not as severe as in DID. There maybe identity disturbance, but not the presence of clearly separated parts or amnesia.* I mean, it makes sense. I struggle with remembering things, always thinking I just forgot but it's kind of odd. Sometimes my sisters tell me that I be crying at random times in the day, but i ABSOLUTELY do not remember that. And also times that my mom randomly tells me to go with her and i say 'why didnt u tell me before' and she says 'I told you a few hours ago'. Like, i be wondering what the *** i was doing a few hours ago. the gibberish is more prominent at times today. The voice sounded more masculine. It isn't constantly murmurs that go on non-stop, its for a few minutes near every hour or smth close to that. im so tired, i just want it to stop. it makes me feel like im going insane. I can't tell anyone about it at home. My sister makes fun of me for everything, my mom won understand it at all, my dad would tell me 'its js in your head, get over it" and stuff like that. And if i told my other older sister, she'd make it about herself some how. And my 'therapist' isnt even an actual therapist. She's just a 'skills trainer' so she cant even diagnose me or anything. oh waiit, i just realize it DOESNT include amnesia. sorry, its nearly 2am and i just finished reading a 12 page thing about different dissociation and DID/OSDD. I'm really tired lol. this is another smash up of my self-writing. right now, at 4:21am, the static feeling is worsened again. its getting hard to feel who i am again. i hate this. im going insane. im sorry

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2 hours ago

The Connection

7 Cups Online Therapy / by soulsings

2 hours ago

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