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Positivity & Gratitude / by Sunisshiningandsoareyou

49 seconds ago

...See more Hiya everyone, I hope this new month brings each one of us lots of peace and joy!💖 Okie I'll try not to blabber too much and come straight to the point! xD Soooo, we know that when we sign up on 7 cups, we are assigned an auto-generated username because anonymity first hehe. And of course, we can change our username from our settings page, for upto first 2 weeks and then after filling a form and providing a valid reason. Which is how there's so many people here who have come up with almost random looking words from the English language, that when put together bring us a spectacular "username", which is often synonymous to their personality, and of course, a major part of our identity here at 7 cups. Purely an observation, and of course, it could've been deeply impacted by the "roles" each account plays here, "listeners" on here to listen to people, support and be an encouraging presence reigniting hope for those that need it, have a more "upbeat" sorta username, usually. (Usually being the keyword) On the other hand, I notice some "member" account usernames that aren't as "upbeat" sounding, which also makes complete sense because on our member account, we are likely more vulnerable and embracing of the not-so-happy-and-okay-us too. (Again, usually being the keyword, and a personal observation entirely) Indeed, there's extremes but then there's also a broad spectrum, and we are all spread out on it embracing our unique-ness and authenticity, describing it as how we see it and are comfortable with. 🌞 I love coming across different usernames that attempt to personate the person behind the screen in one or more ways, whatever way it speaks to *them*. To each their own, always! However, yes it makes me wonder how our usernames shape up our identity here, how we see ourselves and also for others and how we'd like them to see us too. A username speaks a lot about the person, I feel, the more-thought-out ones, specially. Ones with some context and with a backstory! (I tried xD but fortunately, I am me and I'll complete the entire story even after saying "long story short"~ ooh and sometimes even with sub-plots and individual character-development arcs 🤣) Alrighty, now some questions to get your brain-juices flowing- 🌞 What does your username mean? Is there a backstory, you'd like to share? 🌞 If you had an alternate username or could change your username to something else more inclined towards the *current you*, what would you keep it as? Why? 🌞 What's the most captivating username you've come across here? (Yes please, you can tag them by putting an "@" sign before their name) What do you like about it? 🌞 A Gift for youuu: Tag 3 of your peers here and share an alternate username for them, that you feel fits them most. (Needless to say, but we practice extra caution lol, sooo, ~ Appropriate Language Only, *please*) Brownie points if you can be a little descriptive and share "why" do you feel it fits them. I'd love to hear from everyone coming across this.💖

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why doesnt anyone truly care anymore

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Work is making me feel depressed

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Just venting

Depression Support / by TheBestScreenName

16 minutes ago

...See more I left the Roman Catholic Church years ago, and I was a cradle Catholic..... ( my spell check isn't active so please excuse any and all errors I don't have it in me to correct my errors at the moment ) I also tried to become a Catholic Priest that did not work out. But I eventually managed to get into a Catholic Benedictine Monastery. One only hears the peachy romantized side of the monastic life, the truth is far from it. I could go on a rant about the process of becoming a priest, visiting two seminaries, the discernment process in general, and what I endured and went through in the monastery i was at. But I have come to realize there really is no need, doing so as I did in the past was for my own gratification not to feel better or to " educate " anyone. The truth is, the Roman Catholic Church like any other religion, is a take it or leave it religion. Not a , hey do you have notes for us so we can improve religion. Which is the reason why schisms happen in the Church or with in any religion. Take it or leave it and good luck to ya when you get to *** or what ever version of *** there is in said religion. What took me a long time to realize is, I never really belonged in the Church. And how odd and ironic is that. How in the world can the great and almighty Roman Catholic Church explain how a shmuck like myself doesn't belong in said perfect religion that is all inclusive and never makes mistakes and when they do, they fix said mistake in a very perfect manner and when they dont they have a perfect answer as to why. When you can't be respected for your opinions because someone says we are not allowed to have opinions on scripture or disagree with the Church because xyz. It would be equivalent to creating a game that you thusly create the rules to, and the first rule to the game is that only you get to make or change the rules and if anyone disagrees with your rules they are penalized or they end up forfeiting the game and thusly lose said game. An the loop hole to why it is a fair and good game is because anyone is welcome to join and play the game but no one is forcing you to. The second rule of the game is, if you decide not to play something very terrible will happen to you. Now I don't know about Buddhism , or Celtic Druids, or Wiccans, but I know that in the three major religions, that is the gist of it, you don't have to join us or believe what we say, but if you don't something terrible will happen to you for all eternity and if you do decide to join us, you better not mess up or else something sort of bad will happen to you or something really bad will happen to you and dont rock the boat ever, only we the rule makers can rock the boat because " God " said so in " scripture ". The thing is, as I see it, we are all climbing a mountain, the same mountain, it isn't a race to the top, but we are all climbing to the top. But if you are going to stick your head in the sand, there is only one direction and only one side of the mountain to get to the top. An that is just isn't true. A mountain has plenty of sides, and plenty of paths and directions to the top. What direction and path / side, may be the correct and easiest side for some, it doesn't mean it is for everyone no matter what anyone else says. An there is the schism. I had to come to learn that for my self and to accept that for my own self and believe it. To be strong enough to leave a religion that says I am free to leave but I will go to *** or Purgatory if I do and even if I had stayed or if i ever come back, I will probably be going to Purgatory anyhow because only special and perfect people can go directly to Heaven. An insane idea for many reasons. I've heard and read so many scriptures in my life, and Jesus made it clear that his flock will hear his voice that he is the good shepherd, he never said only very specific people that I choose are allowed to tell the flock how to listen to Me and what to do. Heresy ! Blasphemy ! You're going to eternal damnation! All of this started to click in my head and just made more and more and more sense to me that I'm fine. That I do not need validation from complete strangers on if I am living a moral life based on the teachings and standards Christ set forth. Especially when those leaders, who are strangers, are just people, not special perfect uncorruptable angels sent from Heaven, they are shmucks with a bit of an education and that education does not make them a better, or more intelligent person. Sounds like an oxymoron doesn't it, an education doesn't make someone smarter than someone else. An " education " if you boil it down, is really nothing more than training, which requires trial and error to become good at. Same as being a scientist, once you know what the scientific method is, congrats you are on your way. Come up with a theory and a hypothesis bada bing bada boom off you go. Here is a news flash too, an education does not make a person " holy " or " spiritually superior " or " qualified to lead others in a spiritual manner " . A lot of people in life have had a great education and have been scumbags both in the religious atmosphere of life and secular. An chalking up those scumbags to " well they gave in to the devil " is crap. It says a lot when the poor are better moral human beings than a priest or religious leader of any religion. Then comes the mental health part of this vent. The part where there is some slight give with at least the Catholic Church, and I suspect all religions, if you are handicap to where you cant decide on your own, " they " give that person a pass.BUT for some reason everyone is " born with original sin ", there is irony for you, all life is " precious " pre marital sex is a no no, abortion is a big no no, but everyone is born with " original sin" even though God had your name written in the palm of his hand before you were even born and some where in scripture, the sins of the father do not transfer to the son. slow claps. but back to mental health and me. I cant stand people anymore, I hate my life, and I hate my anxiety, so why am i going to torture myself to sit in any church and next to strangers who i could give to poops less about, and who I have no interest in knowing and who are not going to want to be apart of my life for so many reasons... an I am supposed to sit there and smile like an idiot and wave and shake hands and be cordial. all to bask in the super great holy special prayer time that is supposed to give me special spiritual powers to what? To make minimum wage and not afford basic needs , utilities and a place to live? To survive ? I mean I can buy a tent a bow and some arrows, a lighter, fishing gear, and go live in the woods.... And I could literally sit down with a number of priests, rabbi(s), imam, etc, and they would all stare back with this dumb blank look on their face. If all my life I did right according to the Church by going to mass and obeying all the special rules, and im no better off financially or physically than the poor who, are greatly loved by God, and those in poverty are treated no different and are not going to Church,, then wtf....? All to be allowed into Heaven according to the rules someone decided to create based off what they read in scripture? Really? I just cant do this anymore. I am literally years away from losing everything, and no amount of praying is going to change it. Winning the lottery would. Having my own successful business would change things. An what good is Heaven if ya can't change things in the present for the ones ya love, ya just are there on the other side with a stupid smile on your face rooting and hoping your loved ones make it too? Ive got loved ones on the other side, they know and see the pain im in. dur hang in there it'll get better dur just wait you;ll see. tell that to someone with some terminal illness. then what, dur youll be " home soon " hang in there. go sit and spin for real. im over it all, im over my life, i dont want to do any of this anymore im sick of venting im sick of trying im sick of everything and yet i keep going through the wash and i hate it. for me that is purgatory that is damnation, an some idiot would say no no dur dur its way worse you dont know, well unless you have lived my life and actually been to purgatory and or ***, ya really dont know anything. What's even worse is, when I get to the other side, I am not interested in hearing what God or Jesus has to say, I don't care about the infinite glorious answers, or drooling punched in the face *** who want to sing and slobber with the choir of angels for all eternity. Nope, I know what I want, and if all God wants is me in Heaven then fine, I'll be in Heaven, no one said I had to have a sit down and listen to anything God has to say. The way I see it, if God / Jesus/ Holy Spirit, really wants me to understand and know the why part, now is the time to do the talking now is the time to ask me to sit down and listen and fix all the broken stuff. Because I cant fix anything once i get to the other side which means there is no reason to listen to the whys when i get there. Oh here is one piece of scripture which I always found stupid. Look it up for the full proper version. it goes something like The first shall be last and the last shall be first in Heaven or getting into Heaven. Wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Want to know why it is stupid? BECAUSE IT IS HEAVEN! WHO CARES WHO GETS IN LAST OR FIRST! You're going to be happy either way once you're in line or get in, you really think it matters who's first or last? or who gets the special seat at the table or who gets to rub elbows with the special angels and saints? Pretend for a moment that there are toilets in heaven, you realize being a toilet scrubber in heaven is going to be just as joyous and wonderful as a back rub in heaven. because there is no envy or jealousy in heaven, so that means if God sentenced someone in Heaven to be Heavens plumber, or Gods personal fart sniffer, it would still be more enjoyable than anything on earth and way better than anything in ***. If you made it this far, I hope your headache isn't too bad. Go get some rest and forget you read this. I just had to dump this out into the ether. Take the Red Pill... or the Blue Pill...

Anxiety Tics?

Anxiety Support / by 8Nongshim

18 minutes ago

...See more Anybody else experience something call Anxiety tics? I don't have tourettes but as of 2 years ago, I began experiencing these involuntary shoulder jerks. I had passed out in our family car, after spending the entire day walking through the heat for long hours and then standing waiting for a bus for about 4 hours. Eventually my body shut down when I got into our car. I was mumbling, short of breath, head dropping back, body weak. About a week or so after that, I was having a break down while in bed trying to sleep; I was restless, frustrated, couldn't feel, my emotions felt off, I felt empty. I cried out for my mother. She sensed that my depression was coming on. She came to lay with me and that's when the jerks began. Now this was 2 years ago. Since that night, I've been been experiencing it alot. It would happen once or twice very mildly, here and there, but later down that year when I began studying a new subject in prep for exams, it came on frequently. With the shoulder jerks, it pulls my head in too, so when the left shoulder goes up, my head flings left; as if something tugs them towards each other. My mother got worried thinking I was having seizures. I tried researching it but kept getting results for muscle spasms that was nowhere close to what I was experiencing. After exam, it came lesser and lesser. Got it probably once every few months. So I assumed that stress on the mind and body was the cause. But this year, its back more. It was creeping up. One or twice a week. Until last week it came on frequently. Harsh too. When it happens, my hand also flings out. It's like a freaking puppet strings is connecting my shoulder to my head and arms. Since I thought to be stress that time, I thinks it's that now. I'm studying a science subject and I think that no matter how much I try, the work is just not sticking. And exam is in May. So I think stress and anxiety is in works. I decided since it behaves like tics, that I search shoulder tics and there it was. It explained all that referred to me. It's called Anxiety Tics.

I was raised with the Bible in high regards.

Religion & Spirituality / by tryingtosurvive2024

18 minutes ago

...See more I was raised with the Bible in high regards. That means my Christian views are controlled by my understanding from scripture. To me the Bible is how I tell if something is really Godly or not. Back in 2020, I was told about the law of attraction. Not knowing what it was, I had to watch a video about it. Then I had to watch some more videos about it. Something didn't feel right, and it didn't take long to find other people that didn't like it either. In fact I found testimonies of those that had a bad experience with it. They said, that while it did work, and brought good things into their lives, it also put them in bondage to it. They said you had to keep a positive mindset at all times, and eventually that gets exhausting. After watching some of that stuff, and learning how New Age practices have been in some of the of Churches. I got tired of listening to those podcasts and moved on. As far as I know all Christians believe in the supernatural. But we vary in how far we take those beliefs. When one taps into the supernatural, you can get either God through the Holy Spirit, or you can get Demons acting like they are angels of light. That is why it is so important to use the Bible as a way to test things out. When someone from work felt like she was called to missions, I began to feel uneasy about it. I felt uneasy in several different ways, and I'm not sure if I can list all the different ways I felt uneasy. For starters how did she receive a message from God to tell her that missions is something He wants her to do? How come I don't hear God better than I do? All I get is uneasy feelings when something doesn't seem right to me. I researched the organization the she went with. Right away I started finding complaints of spiritual abuse. This caused me to dig and dig and dig. I listened to as many podcasts on the subject as I had time for. I read as many articles as I had time to print. The picture I started to get was an odd organization that has no central office. Yet it is one of the largest missions groups in the world. Some people feel that they get closer to God in it, while others have a bad experience and suffer spiritual abuse. Some people even leave Christianity altogether. How can one organization designed to share Jesus with the world, cause such a polar effect on the people involved? I bought a book by the person who created the organization. He had some curious ways to figuring out what God wants the students to do. This lead me to some more books, that examine some of the methods in comparison to scripture. As it turns out He's combining some New Age like practices with Christianity. There is a connection between this organization and something called NAR. It stands for: New Apostolic Reformation, and it has influenced almost every Church. The practices of NAR has really stretched my belief system, because I was always content with my views on the supernatural. I prayed for what I needed and other people as well. When other Christians could do something extra special, I figured it is possible because one can not limit God. But now I see that it is possible that some of these Christian people might not be tapping into God's power like they think they are. What happens when good things happen but you can't compare it to scripture without twisting or stretching things? Another thing I find so interesting about this journey of research is how, that the very thing I found over 4 years ago, has brought me full circle back to it again. I made a new friend on 7cups. She asked me to tag her. God Bless you my friend! And I hope you have a Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year! @Tinywhisper11 The same goes for everyone that continues to read my stuff. 😊

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