Too Old To Make Mistakes

It's nice to have found this group! My husband just retired in August ( which I wasn't ready for 😥) but I do think the decision that he made is at the very heart of my anxiety... MONEY and the LACK OF CONTROLLING IT. Though it was our decision, it's his life and how could I deny him that? But now my biggest fear has come true... lack of control over our future money. We just made a very expensive bad mistake and that's why I'm here. My panic comes in because it's a done deal... no fixing it...I just have to learn to live with it. These past few days of doing just that have been very difficult. I feel embarrassed because it's as if I was scammed... by me.