She cheated and now I have trust issues

I'm right there with you man. I found out 7 months ago. She confessed to everything. I feel like a fool for staying, but I don't want to leave my kids.

I think people should have a discussion on why this is happening in far greater numbers in the 50 and older crowds.

what made them seek or vulnerable to either a physical or an emotional affair with others....?

many are lonely in their relationships

maybe the sex drive is gone or just the give a crap about making their spouse feel wanted and attractive .........